It could be a local thing. Some areas have a higher concentration of white woman than black woman and if that is what black men are used to then you were probably passed by because of the cities culture.
Try a different club and if it the same try kicking it with a white guy. Never hurts to turn the tables. It worked for me, I worked at GM and the black guys barely spoke. Then I started eating lunch with a couple of white guys that were cool and the brothas had a fit. When they asked why I was hanging out with the white guys I told them because they (the brothas) wouldn't even give me the time of day so why bother when the white guys always had a smile & a hello for me. Needless to say the brothas started speaking, but I still ate lunch with white guys because they treated me like a person no matter what color I was...
Good luck and don't take it personal...
2006-08-30 07:19:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I live in the Metropolitan New Orelans area and it was about 4 years ago a female dee-jay on a black radio station came up with the following:
Okay girls what would be the black man's best movie? It's King Kong because every one of those mothas wants a white woman.
So you see it's nothing new.
2006-08-30 13:15:35
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not haten', but maybe you shouldn't look at it like that. I mean you might be right, and that could suck. But if you are beautiful on the inside there is a great guy out there who would notice. Do you only date black guys? If not maybe you should have tried to pick up on some hot white guys. I mean maybe you should go back to Baltimore, Springfield sounds boring. Just don't get your hopes down, ok Gorgeous!!
2006-08-30 13:16:48
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answered by princess_julia_star 2
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Change your way of thinking, I use to be upset with all the white girls with Hispanic guys and now I have embraced the rule of "To each it's own". BTW, I am not trying to be snotty.
2006-08-30 13:14:57
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answered by Celeste P 7
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I don't get it - you always (9 out of 10) see skinny black guys with HUGE white girls and not pretty at all...
2006-08-30 13:52:18
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answered by Anonymous
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does it really matter what race you are? maybe they are prefered in that city and i think that the color of your skin should not matter any way im black myself living in Southern California and race nor any other feature to disriminate against is not a factor when it comes to partying here
2006-08-30 13:13:43
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answered by BINKbong 2
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you probably don't know this. But in a club or bar, the white girl come to have fun, so when you wlak up to them they just start dancing. They don't trip.
2006-08-30 13:11:58
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answered by Anonymous
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No, what's up with your question? Sounds very racist to me! Oops, I forgot, only white people are racist, right???Maybe you need to re-evaluate where you are in your life, and the way you think. Seems you could use some help in the social behavior department!
2006-08-30 14:21:24
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answered by BoosGrammy 7
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I think that you are not only racist but jealous. It shouldn't matter what skin color you are just if you are attracted to a person or if you like them for who they are not their skin color. I also think your jealous because you though the guys would be all over you when you went into the club and they weren't so it pissed you off.
2006-08-30 13:13:28
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answered by Just Me 3
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were the white girls fat, nasty and drunk?! Because if they were, don't feel bad cuz the dudes just saw an easy opportunity. You wouldn't want those guys anyway.
2006-08-30 13:12:46
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answered by Anonymous
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