Speak the truth with love.........you care about her and don't want others to think badly of her.
Be Direct......I have noticed when i am around you a peculiar smell and i am afraid that others might notice this same thing also.........
Since you are my friend and i value what others think about you....perhaps you should ask some other people what they think.........there are so many products that might help, may i suggestion some thoughts......
By doing it this way you avoid passing judgment...give her choices.......and reinforce that you are concerned and not trying to be cruel
While it is a difficult task....the fact that you care enough to ask how to help her...shows to me you are the one for the job
If rejection still comes as it might....know you did your best in the best way possible
2006-08-30 06:00:10
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answered by steve f 2
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If she thinks you're her friend she might listen to you when you tell her about what you think of her smell and what other people thinks as well. But you should do it in a very nice way for her not to feel upset. Tell her that you'll help her with this problem and that you're not doing it to embarass her, only to help her. If taking a shower doesn't work, or perfumes and other stuff, she should go to a doctor. Sometimes body odors are caused by a disease called ulcers. it is damaged intestines, and some people are not aware of this, it is rather unsual for her to smell like pork, that's why i suggested that she should see a doctor. If she has internal problems, it is most likely that the smell goes out through her sweat. You might find out that she is sick and you'll be able to help her more. Good luck!
2006-08-30 06:00:08
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answered by jen 2
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It could be a metabolic disorder and she can't help it. Go to yahoo or google and do a medical search about what is going on with her and see if you can't find something. Then sit her down and let her know what you found. Sometimes she might not know she smells and if you don't tell her she will NEVER know. Now if she is going to the bathroom and she smells bad when she poops, then I would bet that there is a medical condition there. I was just on webmd.com and I saw that exact condition. It is a problem in the intestines and the body can't metabolize the proteins in foods, so when it passes into the intestines, it is pretty much undigested food. Gross!!!
2006-08-30 05:58:23
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answered by brittme 5
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Get her to the side, away from any of your other friends, and just be honest with her. Tell her she has an odd smell about her (but do it in a friendly way!!!) and suggest that she change her body fragrances. Don't try to cover it up with a scent, the mixture could make an all new not so nice smell. Suggest she change her bathing schedule (showering twice a day) and using Aveeno shower gels they seem to give a natural scent. Hope this helps.
2006-08-30 05:57:48
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answered by JacalsGal 2
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answered by remond 3
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I once lived in an old farm house where we heated with wood, and I didn't realize I smelled like smoked pork chops until someone informed me. Maybe they heat with wood where she lives? Otherwiese, it's probably a combination of what she's eating, where she's living, and her personal hygiene. You're her friend, so you owe it to her to say something. Try to put it gently, and offer to partner with her on a solution, like going with her to see a specialist (like a nutritionist).
2006-08-30 05:55:40
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answered by Zebra4 5
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Maybe take her aside and let her know. Along with some gently suggestions on better hygine, and better eating. Maybe take her out to a really nice vegatarian restuarant, and then to a spa afterwards. Just be nice, and don't embarass her.
2006-08-30 05:54:37
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answered by Spuddy 2
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tell her she "reely reely" smells like old pork chops. if you're truly friends she will be glad you told her. obviously she's not Jewish.
2006-08-30 05:56:26
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answered by LEJIANE 3
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Tell her to drink more chai, peppermint tea, and not eat foods that smell bad like garlic, lower quality meat products, coffee, etc.
2006-08-30 05:52:15
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answered by Anonymous
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you should for her birthday or something give her a basket of soap ,shampoo etc but put other things in it not related to cleanliness so it doesnt make it to obvious the message you are trying to send her i guarantee it will work
2006-08-30 05:58:39
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answered by shawty 1
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