IShe is trying to get me to betray other friends and tell her some personal things about them. I know its wrong and tell her over and over again but she keeps pressuring me! I'm nbot gonna tell her but i'm just so mad at her! She tells me things about other friends, I already know most things, but its still mean and I tell her but she keeps doing it. She also asks me very personal questions and I don't really wanna be her friend but I do wanna because she hardly has any friends, and I know its right. Any advice on how to keep my patience cap on or any other advice on the situation? XOXO!
2006-08-30 05:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The way she is acting is prolly the reason behind y she doesn't have ne friends. I hate to break it to u, but she prolly doesn't even care one bit about ur feelings or value u as a friend at all. It sounds like she's just using u as a source of information. U better kick her to the curb. U also don't know wut ur other friends are informing her on, about u and wut she's running her mouth about. They might not be a strong as u have been about keeping quite. If she's running to u for information, she's prolly running to them. U better just get out from under her, while the gettin' is good.
2006-08-30 05:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not "right" to stay someone's friend because you feel bad for them. It sounds like in this case, she doesn't have many friends for a reason. You are doing the right thing by not giving into her demands - you are obviously a stronger person and a better friend than she is. My advice - STAY AWAY. You will encounter many people like this in life, and they are just viscious, insecure people that want others to be as miserable as they are. If you still insist on being her friend, tell her that you will not under any circumstances tell her personal information about you or anyone you know, and that if she keeps asking you that you will not hang out with her anymore. And mean it!
2006-08-30 05:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you went on whining about the placement on your question so i desire it really is now off your chest, i don't think of that they betrayed you, they were close with you and doubtless did not desire every person else to come back stay with them as you all are tight, and once you stated you could nicely be shifting out, they needed a smaller position of residing because it is going to value them a lot less, they had to seem out for themselves, and also it feels like they gave you an excellent variety of time to pick they even had a gathering to communicate this so even if judgements were made, were no longer performed behind your back, If something they'd sense betrayed through you shifting out and leaving them as you adult men were close. i imagine you should surely quit feeling sorry for your self and seem at their aspect of view in this concern as i imagine you're being selfish !
2016-10-15 22:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is NOT your friend. Beleive me I've been through the same thing before. This person is jealous of the "better friendships" you have with other people. That is the reason why this person has NO friends. This person is a backstabber and is not capable of being a friend to anyone. In order to have friends, you have to be a friend. This person can not do that because of Jealousy.
2006-08-30 05:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder she doesn't have other friends. You're being nice by being her friend but she isn't returning the favor. I would say don't worry so much about being her friend just because it's the nice thing to do. If she isn't a good person, always talking about your other friends, then you don't have to put up with her.
If you are going to hang out with her because she needs friends and she pulls you into trouble, it won't be fair to you.
I'd tell her that if she doesn't stop, you're going to stop associating with her. If she needs friends, she'll stop. If she only cares about herself, she won't.
2006-08-30 05:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you wonder why she doesnt have many friends.. look she isnt a friend at all to you, shes manipulating you and finding dirt on your true friends, so that she can put them down to make herself feel better.. just break ties with her she isnt worth it.. and one worry you could do with out.. if your just being her "friend" out of sympathy then dont you think your being a bit cruel? i think you should tell her to change her ways, and kindly give her some positive critism that she can use to change or adapt to a lifestyle where people will actually like her. But remember true friends do not pressure or manipulate you.. you can do better.. and dont tell her anything about your friends seriously shes jst tryin to dig dirt up to ***** about them
2006-08-30 05:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she continues you can no longer be around her. Sounds like she is doing alot of talking, and not listening to what you are telling her. Don't be so nice about it, if she does this with you what is she saying to others about you? May want to take her off your list of friends.
2006-08-30 05:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make small party to gather your friends and tell them in front of her the things she wants to know about them ,so they will take care of her,and she will be ashamed of her behavior,and may stop it.
2006-08-30 05:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ahmad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the situation under control .. You're tha man ... don't do something you'll regret later on
2006-08-30 05:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck! it looks like your in a sticky situation, if they were really youre friends they would want what wa best for you!
2006-08-30 05:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by my_metamorphasis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋