If someone is raped are they not a virgin anymore?

Question

Unfortunately this happened to me, and I am very confused and would like other peoples persepctive on the situation.

Answer 1

Hi,

I am sorry to hear about what happened to you. What a terrible ordeal. Yet, please try NOT to think of losing your virginity in the terms of sexual assault.

There are a lot of things that can break a woman hymn (Tampons, Sports, Falls, Injuries, Etc.,.), so just view your experience as one of those accidents.

Now you have other matters to attend to. Please go to the Emergency room if you have NOT already done it.

You may have pregnancy to worry about, perhaps a sexually transmitted disease, or maybe you just need someone to talk to.

You can find all you need there, so please go, or talk to a parent, or best friend, or teacher, or minister, or someone, anyone, because you should not be going through this trauma alone.

There are real people in the world to help you through this situation. Please don't rely on the answers you will find here for a substitution for real human compassion...

The people here mean well, but you need some real one on one human compassion. You are on a great start, but please follow through with what I suggested..

I wish you the best!

Answer 2

Physically you aren't anymore. I'm sorry that someone stole this from you. That doesn't mean that you aren't still pure. This is something you had no control over. So you are still a virgin in every other sense. If you haven't reported this to the police? you should do so right away. I don't think this person should get away with it and be free to do it to someone else. In God's eyes you are still a virgin. If you can't report it at least seek some counceling to deal with the trauma. You will be affected by this the rest of your life if you don't .

Answer 3

If you go by technicality, you aren't a virgin.

My opinion though is that if you were a virgin before you were raped, you should be able to say you are still a virgin because rape is not a choice. You didn't ask for someone to violate your body.

I'm so sorry that something that horrific happened to you girl, but I know you'll be ok with time. Email me anytime if you wanna talk :)

Answer 4

I think you are still considered a virgin because it was against your will. I am sorry that this happened to you and I hope you did something about it. I was raped also, so I know how you are feeling. You did not give your virginity to this person. Although others might not consider you a virgin,(because physically you are not anymore) you should consider your self one. Your in my prayers!

Answer 5

First off did you go to a doctor and have you called a rape crisis center? That should be one of the first things you should think of doing. There are many avenues to get help, just look in the front of your local phone book for crisis numbers, you will need all the support you can get.

Answer 6

I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope you have reported this to the appropriate authorities.

Technically, you are no longer a virgin physically. However, your heart is still pure. This is what the spirit of virginity really is.

God bless you.

Answer 7

I'm sorry! I hope you're okay. Unfortunately, if you have sexual intercouse with anyone, you're no longer a virgin. I'm not talking about going down on a person, I mean putting the penis into the vagina kind of intercourse.

Answer 8

I am sorry that this has happened to you. You are no longer a virgin. I hope you did the right thing and have reported the person to the police and if you are underage to your parents.

Answer 9

aww im sry sweetheart unfortunately ur not a virgin anymore nd if u havent already u should go 2 the police

Answer 10

NO that person lost their virginity from whoever raped her and I did had some former friends who got raped and they got drepressed about it for months. Its going to be painful for you about the past so don't worry too much about this ok.