He says he likes me.but he has been going back and forth to me then his 3 year girlfriend. and he treats me like i mean the world but never has gaven me a chance to BE with him. And he has played me and says stuff behind my back then tells me that my friends are lying. that he loves me. i know i should but i dont know how to get over him. any suggestions?
2006-08-30 05:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
who knows if he really likes you. i'm sure he does a little bit, but that's not the point. he's immature, and he treats you badly. find a boy that only wants to be with you, and doesn't play games.
2006-08-30 05:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back for a moment and think what do I like about myself? This guy doesn't want to be more than friends right now so you should try meeting other guys through clubs at school, church, or what ever interests you may have. The key is to find an activity that you truly enjoy and then start talking to guys that have similar interests. It isn't easy to get over someone. As hard as it is - stop talking to him more than in just passing. Don't answer his phone calls, don't email him - let him be. Once you can do this, and it's not easy, then you will be able to move on and be much happier. Let him go. Journal your thoughts and feelings - write down everything you like about him and every thing you don't. Most of all don't jump right into another relationship on the rebound. Take your time getting to know your next guy friend.
2006-08-30 05:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. A man will play you until you stop allowing it. The only thing that you need to do is to dump his azz. Tell him to stop calling you and don't accept his phone calls when he does. Find something to occupy your time like hanging out with friends. Eventually, you'll get over him and realize what a loser he was because no man with any type of morals or respect for himself would string two women along. It shows a lack of judgment, complusive behavior and overall childishness.
You deserve someone who won't lie to you. This aint that guy!
2006-08-30 05:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem with himself. Move on and look at the other things in life. Stop being his doormat, you go girl and be you, don't get stuck in his goo! Good luck and if it is so that your hart doesn't want to leave stand a moment back an look at thing as if you were a person observing. Youl find the answer.
2006-09-02 11:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Sunshine Angle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord, girl, get rid of him. Playing you like a fish, he is. When he gets bored he reels you in, then lets you out again. Its hard, I know, to leave someone you think you care about, but this guy is an emotional abuser, and a control person. The only way to do it is to Do It . It will hurt like blazes for awhile, but once you realize it was your ego that got in the way, it stops hurting a lot faster. Guys like this are players, and they get away with it because they are sexy, charming, and persistent. "you need me", he says. "You know I love you." and then you see him with the other girl.
That in itself is a serious clue.
You might even talk to her, see if she knows about YOU,,,
2006-08-30 06:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by judyt54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just have some self respect and quit taking his calls, move on!
if you have been sleeping with him, that's probably all he is stringing you along for. many guys will say anything to get more... of that. seriously. if he is not giving you love, consideration, and kindness then DON'T waste your time.
2006-08-30 05:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a another guy one who treats you rite
trust me with time he will be a distant memory
2006-08-30 05:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct. Go with it and move on. It will get better with time. I promise.
2006-08-30 05:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distract yourself with some new scenery--new MALE scenery, that is!
2006-08-30 05:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋