he's been neglecting me. i've tried to do things to get his attention, it doesn't matter what i do, he doesn't pay me any attention. we've talked about it and he brushes it off like it's nothing. i do so much for him. what am i supposed to do???
2006-08-30 05:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by nikared69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's 24 and i'm 23.
2006-08-30 06:23:16 · update #1
we've been married for 2 1/2 years and we have a child together. sometimes i wonder is he just with me for the sake of our son? i can cook anything, keep the house clean, give him some whenever, and just doesn't work!!!
2006-08-30 06:26:30 · update #2
warning signs should be going off!!!!
I hate to say it but honesly it sounds like he is cheating!
Keep your eyes open for more out of the normal behavier from him, start making notes of all that you can that are things he used to do.
You know him well enough since you married him you should know if things arent adding up. Keey your ears and eyes wide open and be on the look out!!!
Good Luck and for your sake I hope hes not cheating!
2006-08-30 06:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if this has been a recent problem, maybe a few months or so then you should stick with it. Marriage is a serious committment. Things will not always be easy. Perhaps there are some things troubling him that could be distracting him from his husbandly duties. Work, faith, health... Investigate, but do not harrass, him about what is going on in his life and be supportive. This may just be a phaze.
2006-08-30 05:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It COULD be one of two things. Speaking as a married man, he could be bored. The second thing is that he could be contemplating cheating or is cheating. If it the first, spice things up a bit. Do something different.
2006-08-30 08:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by maf20057 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having an affair. Maybe you should find out so you can stop trying to work hard on a marriage that isn't gonna last.
2006-08-30 05:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by greeneiis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start casually mentioning random encounters with other men and see if he notices that you're talking about getting offers for dates; make them up if you have to, just to see if he notices or cares at all.
If he doesn't notice or doesn't care, then start dating for real and leave this loser when you get a new man.
2006-08-30 05:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cook him up some nice corn bread n collard greens, and gurrrrrrrrrrrl no man can resist the way to a manz heart is through his stomach....den maybe he wont be such a punk azz.
2006-08-30 05:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him & getting counseling for yourself.. if that doesnt work, try leaving. it seems to sound like he's done with the relationship...
2006-08-30 05:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off and come see me! i'd love to take care of that little problem for him
2006-08-30 05:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him and take him to the cleaners
2006-08-30 05:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Shameless Women's Advocate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's cheating behind your back...but thats just me.
2006-08-30 05:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋