2006-08-30 05:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PLEASE STATE WHY.
2006-08-30 05:16:01 · update #1
Right where I am now.
After 14 years together we share everything. Our hopes and dreams, and most of all each other.
We trust each other, and love each other (even the grey hair and varicouse veins)
A marriage is for life, not just for Christmas.
2006-08-30 05:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Newly weds for sure. When we were first married he would call in sick just to stay in bed with me but now he works 12+ hours a day everyday. Take yesterday for examlpe (his day off, not) he went in at 4AM and didn't get home till this morning at 3:45 AM. Today was supposed to be his day off since he worked yesterday and he went in 30 minutes ago and shouldn't be back till at least 1 AM (that's a short day!!) He had promised he wouldn't work tomorrow but I already know that his district manager is supposed to be in then around 8 AM so he'll go in for a few hours while he's there and then of course it's the last day of the month so he'll be in there for 5 hours or so around closing time (12 AM) to take end of month inventory. I so long for the days when my carress was all he thought he needed and now he seems to think money (and not that much for the hours if you ask me) is more important. Oh well, that's better than a man who is cheating I guess. So, what about you? Newly weds or not? How long have you been married anyhow? (Only 2 years here, but I can say he's gone from a minimum wage worker to an owner) Hope your day goes well!! Best wishes
2006-08-30 07:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be where we are now. My husband and I had a very rocky beggining to our marriage and slipt up a couple times. We never really had that honeymoon faze. We have worked a lot of things out and are finally happy. I think now after two years we are starting to have our honeymoon faze. When everyone says that the first 5years are the hardest they arent lieing but we are very much happy and in love
2006-08-30 05:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love where we are right now as we are secure in our relationship and have learned to compromise and put the other first. The newlywed was exciting and fresh and new however our marriage is broken in now to the comfortable stage and we have a deep love that has grown over time!
2006-08-30 05:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am both. We are newly weds (married May 13th) but... we have been together for a long time and really know eachother well and I am thankful for what we have as well as the wedding stage.
2006-08-30 05:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where I am right now. We have been married 10 great years. We have 2 gorgeous children and great careers. When we first married, we were still in college and had no children. That time of life was fun, but now what we have and do is so much more fulfilling.
2006-08-30 05:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to start over and be a newlywed again. You are the center of attention, the day is all about you and you don't really get that back when you have been married for awhile.
2006-08-30 05:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how we're going through divorce, I guess I'd have to say newlyweds. I pray for a second chance so I could do things right this time
2006-08-30 05:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by choirboy5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the newlywed stage was fun, but I would not trade places....I like where we are right now, the kids are all grown, we do more for ourselves these days and can basically go when we want and where without having to arrange many schedules and such
2006-08-30 05:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where I am right now. The beginning is such an adjustment emotionally and psychologically~ We are now in a nice "place" that is just right.
2006-08-30 05:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Designchc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋