Ok. At the gym I go to there is a black guy my age (22) who works there who is a personal trainer. I have never hired him but he is very friendly and always come over to help me with the machines, and with advice. Although I ussually don't give guys the time of day at the gym (I'm there to work out), I have always been nice to him because of his outgoing personality and--I admit it--his muscular bod. He's ripped and not bad to look at! Anyway, the other day he comes over and starts saying motivational things while I'm working my legs. Something catches my eye, and I realize that the guy is getting physically excited while watching me. You know how workout clothes are..I could see that the man is blessed. He kind of slinked away quickly and has been shy with me ever since. The whole thing--from his SIZE to his shyness--was a huge turn-on. I can't get it out of my mind. I was raised not to think in racial terms, so I feel guilty that this interracial thing has turned me on. Advice?
2006-08-30 05:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to continue as if nothing happened, pretend you never saw anything.
2006-08-30 05:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with dating outside your race. I am a black male and date white females. It is what's inside that matters. And for the other thing act like you did not notice and open up to a conversation with him. Maybe he will ask you out. If not ask him out and see where it goes from there. Hope that helped you out some.
2006-08-30 12:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ron6taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. Follow your heart. Relationships are all about risks and sacrifices. Even though both of you are from two different cultural backgrounds, you are both wonderful human beings. If you love this guy, then tell him exactly how you feel.
2006-08-30 12:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Louise Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind the UPS slogan.
What can brown do for you?
2006-08-30 12:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by M Double 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come into the 21st Centery!
2006-08-30 12:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋