My wife has a muscular disease that causes her whole body to hurt. No sex life for 6 years. She has D.I.D. (Multiple presonalities) due to childhood abuse, the person I married is not the preson I am with today. She just learned she may have developed diabetes. We have two children, 15 and 18.
I want to be more active in my sex life. Up until 6 years ago we had a very active life together. Now my wifes body is that of an older person. She cannot do the things I would like to do. We are discussing that I can have a mistress or go out on dates. The problem is, women do not want to date a married man and then not many just want to date for sex. I don't lie to these women when I go out, I get a lot of sympathy, but no one wants to mess around, even though I have permission and even offer to let them call her. I am not looking to leave my wife, just to fulfill a need she is no longer physically or mentally able to do. Does anyone have any viable solutions to my situation? Thank you.
2006-08-30 04:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Just Another Guy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, what a tremendous wife you have to allow you to have someone on the side. She is a loving woman! I also get your side as well, you have needs and need them to be met. Have you thought about not telling the other women the truth? I get your situation and how difficult that must be for the "other" woman to understand, especially if she is wanting more. So, with that, try not to tell the truth, make up another life for yourself, or tell others that you are divorced..if all that you are looking for is sex, no harm in not telling the truth.. the other option is to enroll some of your friends in helping you find someone who does not want to marry, maybe has kids of her own, and is looking for the same as you. Friends are good helpers and may know someone. Good luck!
2006-08-30 05:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by jewels 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry babe.
If you are sure your wife is comfortable with it then a classy hooker might be the only way. It is probably better than cruising for a regular girl - after all it would be just for the sex.
2006-08-30 11:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow.....I thought my life was complicated! I'm sorry to here all of that!
I've thought about it and can't think of any good solutions. Sorry
2006-08-30 11:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by M☆mma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep bringing newness.
2006-08-30 11:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer; we forget the worse, we want to enjoy only the good times...
2006-08-30 11:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE, YOU TOOK A VOW MAN
2006-08-30 11:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by supermomma 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋