2006-08-30 04:20:30 · 16 answers · asked by shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When all you do is fight, when all you do is cry and at the end of the day, you'd rather sit in silence than approach eachother.
2006-08-30 04:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been married 30 years. In all that time, sometimes I hated him, sometimes I couldn't live without him, For months at a time we will have wild crazy adventerous sex then for months more, it will be just plain old sex and sometimes in between, we don't do it at all. But We are Best Friends!!! and that comes first, even before our marriage, because we know that most best friends treat each other better then their own spouse, they will forgive each other over and over, make extra plans just to spend time together and are usually best friends for life. So make your spouse your best friend first and then just say sorry when it's needed and never hold a grudge. A long term marriage is BEAUTIFUL!!!!
2006-08-30 11:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,There is no right or wrong time really.I if u are unhappy or just not in love with the person anymore than u need to be honest and just leave.Tell them in what ever form u can.And be as honest and straight forward about it all and Try to end as friends but if not then don't prolong it it doesn't help the situation at all.
2006-08-30 11:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts should be the biggest indicator of when to check out. The fact that you are asking the questions means you have considered it. Dont stay for any other reason other than YOU WANT TO. Not for money, kids, safety, sex...Nothing but your own desire and will. You come first - be happy and your partner will be happy. Be completly honest. Communicate. Share.
2006-08-30 11:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they start not giving you as much attention. Like if you guys always used to catch each others eyes, in your office building all the time, no you just slightly smile and walk away, its time to move on. The best thing to do, as awkward as it may be, is to talk to him/her. Like if you dont want to let him/her go, do something COMPLETELY spontaneous that you never did before (go to magic mountain, do "it" in a movie theatere restroom, whatever) try to renew things if possible. But if you dont feel that warmness--just say goodbye and hello to a new WONDERFUl life waiting for you. Good luck.
2006-08-30 11:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sad we leave mate
2006-08-30 11:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When communication, respect, compromise, happiness and love no longer cease to exist.
2006-08-30 11:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they change the locks buy a guard dog and set your stuff out, its time to make tracks
2006-08-30 11:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just feel this....when u have nothing in comun, or u don't love him anymore....there are a lot of reasons between 2 people.....but u'll know deep inside u.....
2006-08-30 11:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking the question, you're probably ready.
People who are happy together never ask this question.
2006-08-30 11:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by gift_of_the_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋