imagine there were two guys in ur life ,with one u have had a 4 year relationship but at the same time he has always left u for 3 different women while with the other guy u have had a1 year reltionship but he has hit u and both love u like crazy and would do anything literally anything for u which one wud u choose if u had to pick one
2006-08-30 04:15:33 · 31 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Sweety, I would end up choosing neither. I'd rather go speed dating and find someone else ^_^
and i really hope, you'd do the same, cos a relationship is not about being cheated on or getting beaten up. Think about it....
2006-08-30 04:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one loves you, that's what your missing here. I would choose door # 3. Get the hell out of there. The first one leaves you and has 3 other girls.....where is the love for you ? and the second one hits you.....where is the love for you ? Choose door # 3 girl. Both these changes will lead you down the wrong path. A path to true unhappiness.
2006-08-30 04:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of those jerks are worth the time that it took you to type your question, girlfriend!
One has cheated on you 3 times and the other has put his hands on you, and you actually feel that they both "love u like crazy"?? Do YOU love yourself? Please don't think that I'm being harsh, because that is so NOT my intention, ok? I'm only asking because I don't even know you, and I know that you deserve SO MUCH MORE THAN CHEATING AND PHYSICAL ABUSE.
Get ride of the pair of 'em, girlfriend! Take some time for YOU, okay? And, while you're taking that "you" time, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you deserve to be in a committed relationship with someone who loves you unconditionally and exclusively, because, guess what?? You do deserve it, Hun!!
2006-08-30 04:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chell B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id pick neither, I respect myself too much to lower my standards to two freaks, One with a compulsive cheating behavior, and the other is abusive.... Hmmmmm.... Sounds a little stupid to choose either. But taking this question a little more serious... If I had to choose, Id choose the cheater because at least then Id only end up with STD"s that would EVENTUALLY possibly kill me rather than a guy who could beat me to death at any given time.
2006-08-30 04:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not choose the one that hit you of course. If I had to choose it would have to be the one that left 3 times. But, if this is your case dump both of them and find someone else..
2006-08-30 04:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by spicy girl 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR, who could help me figure out why I hate myself so much that I choose a lifetime of punishment. And why I'm so afraid of being abandoned by someone I love and admire, that I choose someone worse than the person I see myself as: so that I can remain "morally superior" to both of them and blame them when things falls apart.
. . . But he wasn't one of the choices, was he?
2006-08-30 04:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY choice you need to be making is how to get away from those 2 creeps (BOTH OF THEM, ONE IS NO BETTER THAN THE OTHER) and find some counselor or pastor who you can trust to help you learn to love yourself. If you stay in either one of these relationships, you are punishing yourself and damaging your body, mind, and spirit.
2006-08-30 04:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I would seriously doubt whether they love you. One has cheated on you and one has hit you..... that doesn't sound like true love. and it doesn't sound like doing anything for you. You have another option, which is to pick neither of the scum-bags, and find yourself a nice man. Or you could try being on your own, it's great to have that independence for a while.
2006-08-30 04:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose neither. You deserve alot better than that. I know it's hard because you've been with them, but why would you stay with guys like that, when there are other guys out there for you. Get rid of them before it's to late.
2006-08-30 04:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by power of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oka.. well i wouldnt pick either just incase ur talkin about ur own life, cus there is defently better guys out there that wont cheat on u and wont abuse u.. well i would probably pick the one who hits me cus i dont mind bein hurt like that once in awhile specially if i am teh only one he loves.. i cant stand ppl who cheat becuase its like there sayin just use isnt good enough i need more to get wat i want.. so yes i would personnaly never pick either but u said we have to choose soo teh one taht hits u and have only been together for a year..
2006-08-30 04:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋