He also specified 'no kids' and we have kids together. We have been together for years and I had no idea he was this kind of guy. His explanation was that he did try to set up an account and was unable to so he logged off, also on the gender he specified 'no answer', if he's straight as I tought he should have said so, this is very serious so please no silly answers. How would you handle this situation, should I leave him? One more thing one of our kids is a special needs child who really loves him and has a very hard time with changes.
2006-08-30 03:07:28 · 10 answers · asked by jan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I apologize, when I wrote gender, I actually meant sexual orientation-he left that blank, it just makes me wonder.
2006-08-30 03:46:54 · update #1
It does sound like he might have just not followed through with the setup process. However, if there has been activity on the account, then it would appear he has figured out how to use the account since his initial setup.
Be careful to not get paranoid and will infidelity into your relationship. Be honest and tell him that after finding that you are feeling incredibly vulnerable and insecure, not only for yourself, but on behalf of your children.
Tell him that you believe him, because you don't think he would lie to you, but that you just need him to be sensitive to your insecurities right now and that in due course you will get over this.
Then try your best to not hover over his every move. This is a situation where you could drive yourself insane.
Give him a chance and then if something leaps out at you (in an obvious way---not because you were snooping through his every possession) then I would say you need to start taking steps to protect yourself and your children.
2006-08-30 03:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt specify anything then he probably didnt set up his account all the way. i know of more than one of my friends that didnt specify everything the first day. myspace will also kick you off sometimes or pages wont open so maybe he couldnt specify anything. if he didn even specify his gender than i doubt he was able to fully set up the account. you should not let this ruin your relationship. get over it and work on other more important issues.
2006-08-30 03:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen this happened many time.. he might be telling you the truth.. maybe he didn't go through everything... A lot of people don't knwo how to get to ther "basic info" and input all theinformation in... I don't think you should let it get to you... If he loves you and you both have trust in each other tthen there is nothing to worry about.. plus you hvae kids together.. think of the kids too.
2006-08-30 05:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy & Classy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave his ***. how do you know he not meeting another girls offline. about your child with the hard changes. well do what you think it right but if i was in your shoes i would do what i wrote. but if you want you can sit down with him and tell him what you found out on my space and tell him it's has to stop. dont put up with this stuff. good luck hope this help
2006-08-30 03:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has an account that says he is single and have no kids, He is thinking about cheating on you with one of them girls on there.
2006-08-30 15:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by lady2sweet2eat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult with an attorney. prepare yourself for the worst. protect your kids. go from there. if you think or feel there is a betrayal then your instincts are correct. you know this. good luck!
2006-08-30 03:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY LIVE-IN BOYFRIEND DID THE SAME THING. SO I WENT AHEAD AND OPENED UP MY OWN ACCOUNT AS WELL AND WROTE SINGLE TOO. HE DID NOT LIKE IT SO WE BOTH AGREED TO ERASE OUR MY SPACE ACCOUNTS. EVERYTHING IS OK WHEN THEY DO IT, BUT WHEN U DO IT TO THEM THEY DO NOT LIKE IT.
2006-08-30 03:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should read the book, "He's just not that into you". Do you want to get married? Why hasn't he married you?
2006-08-30 03:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by cbgrace71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink u r going to have lot of problems. he is playing games with u. dont trust him.
2006-08-30 03:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by nuwanusa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have oral sex with him.
2006-08-30 03:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋