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Okay, I don't know what I'm doing, but here's the story. I'm a married woman and a business associate of mine is a married man. Well, for a couple of months now we've been emailing each other lately it's become almost on a daily basis. In our emails we talk about everything from what we did on the weekend and our families to our most intimate thoughts. I know when we talk about things we would like to do that secretly we're thinking about each other. We've already told each other that we know where our lives are and that won't change but we've also said that we like each other. I don't know, I'm just getting confused, we've never been any closer than a foot or two from each other so there's never been any physical contact. We have told each other in emails that we think the other one is good looking. We're just both kind of wondering what the heck we're doing, what do you think? Is it just a close friendship that's building or something more.

Answer 1

You're both treading dangerous waters right now. What has started out as a friendship seems to building into something a litlle more serious. You haven't said whether or not you are both happy in your marriages,but if you are, boundaries have to be set in your friendship,because once you cross that line,there's no going back. You have to ask yourself if you're really willing to give up what you already have on something that may not last.Men and women can be just friends,even if attracted to one another.But you must be strong enough and committed enough to your marriage to keep it that way.The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Answer 2

That's really up to you guys. The way I see it if you are attracted to each other as you say then maybe there's something missing in your marriage. If you can identify exactly what it is then do everything in your power to make it work if not then the both of you to determine if you can both live with the act of having an affair or just plain leave your spouses. FYI: I had an affair and it was find until she left her man and wanted me to leave my wife & marry her. She got to attached when we both in it for sexual satisfaction. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

It's called cheating. There's two kinds. The kinds where you physically step outside your marriage, and the kind where you emotionally do. That's where you are. The advice is the same. Either stop all contact and go to therapy with your husband, or divorce your husband.

Answer 4

If you're married, why would you email around with another guy? It is absolutely stupid. It really pisses me off to know about married women who have eyes on another man, its a disgrace. I would say, tell your husband everything because it would be more devestating if he were to find out on his own.

Answer 5

If it is professional relationship you can not stop... If it is information net friendship then there is a way to stop this communication.. But if you find that it is disturbing your real life in any case then find out some way out.. up till then there is no harm in it...

Answer 6

I think you should arrange to be alone at a motel with him and have oral sex and wild sex together. The two of you should **** your brains out. Dont let anyone stop you. You should then talk your partners into joining you for a foursome orgy. Have fun!!!

Answer 7

ask your self this question. Could my partner read these emails with out it causeing trouble and you will have your answer Good luck

Answer 8

u r going to end up in a divorce. so limit ur emails

Answer 9

I think that it will eventually build something more

Answer 10

it will be what you want it to be

if you just want to continue to chat then do so

if you want a f-buddy I am sure he would be willing to go there too