A man who loves me i love him(we are family friends) only thing is he left home due to being in gangs so he works stays abroad.He works professionally educated he got into it due to his friends.He cant commit now.He doesnt know if tomorrow he can.We cant meet,phone/emails are in between.He cant live without me if i try to move on he comes back into my life.We havent had physical relationship so its not booty call.He loves me i love him.What to do?
2006-08-30 02:56:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think around u people only take advantage of u,try this see how many people love u for who u are no other reason.As u have those people in ur life things will work out.In process u might loose a few people but thats best.U know who loves u for urself.
As for this guy seems like hes not in position to get married but thats fine u decide if u can wait if not move on since only u know if not today if tomorrow he will marry u for sure if he will then wait if not move on get married dont let anyone tell u love happiness isnt for u u deserve all love happiness in this world!
2006-08-31 16:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is this man worth waiting on? Some people is going to tell you too wait. Why wait on a man? He has told you he can't commit right now maybe because he works all the time and probably want have time to do other things as mens do in a committed relationship. All I can say is just hope for the best between you and him. If he says he loves you then he has to show that love for u. You got to realize you can't meet, phone,email actually anything so why waste your time. Yeah you love him and you said he love you but if he loves you then he needs to be there with you or try to plan some arrangements where you and him can start spending time and do things together, if he can't do that then you should move on sorry to say that but that is the next step you have to take. Best of Luck
2006-08-30 10:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to stay away. If he really is involved, he will walk over you of the need be. Tell him if he wants to be with you, he needs to get out. And I am not even sure if he can at this point. Good Luck
2006-08-30 10:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait. It's all you can do, if he isn't in a position where he can commit right now but you know you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
2006-08-30 09:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Move to stay with him.
2006-08-30 10:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋