Why do people blow off by saying stuff like get over him and move on?

Question

it is really not easy to get over people like that and its not easy to break peoples heart.
why doesn't everyone try to understand that some people are really attatched and don't want to let go coz they love them too much

they don't bother answering using their mind, people need tips and they need help

there is a mistake

its suppose to be - they don't bother to answer

Answer 1

Your exactly right, but some people on this site are just looking for their 2 points, not really trying to help people. Your right its not easy getting over relationships and the people that you love. But you have to learn to move on, and find better. There is always a reason why a relationship goes bad, or doesnt work out. And you have to think, if its doesnt work out now, but I try to stay with that person, will the marraige work out to if I marry them? And most likly the answer will be NO! you always have to remember that just because one relationship didnt work, the hurt is normal, but getting over it is a must, so you can get back on the trail of love.

Answer 2

There are circumstances where a relationship cannot be saved no matter how much it hurts someone to hear it. People say, "move on" because basically, there are no other options and often it's for the best - even if the person hearing it doesn't want to even think about it, or think it's possible because they love so much. Love hurts sometimes. It's a fact of life.

Everyone knows it's easier to say than do... most people have been there at some point in their lives. As for tips, what can be said? Spend more time with friends, read a good book, go out and buy yourself a cheering up present, find another love, pursue a new hobby... sure, all good tips and they'll temporarily distract you from your heartbreak, but the real answer is it takes TIME. It takes time for emotions to heal and it usually feels like it's going by way too slow. ... and nobody wants to hear that.

Answer 3

Here's the thing. People ask us what to do in a particular situation and I personally give my unbiased advice. I'm not going to sugar coat anything or b*llsh*t them. If I think you should leave someone or move on, I'm going to tell you. My thing is if you don't want a straight answer, don't ask. It sounds like you just want people to tell you whatever you want to hear and if you don't hear it, you get p*ssed. Life doesn't work like that. A lot of people have been in similar situations as other people and are just letting them know how to handle it to the best of their knowledge. It doesn't mean you have to do it. Plus, no one ever said that getting over people you love is easy, but sometimes it is the best answer. So before you go off on people for telling you the truth, actually try to listen to what they are saying. And if you don't want straight honest answers that people who've been there can provide, why bother submitting a question at all?

Answer 4

I am sure its hard to hear when people say that but always remember that when a relationship ends, it can still remain in your heart. The person you were in love with, regardless of what made the relationship fail, had a piece of your heart and that will never be taken away.

Hugs Mel (Loving Memory of My Son, My Angel, Zachary)

Don't judge my comment to the dedication of my son like this idiot -> http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoZzyqw61dXPF1.ZDFJbEsDsy6IX?qid=20060829033342AAIaG9w

Answer 5

wen someone say get over him is not like they are bad but i think is the easy way. we all find are self saying that becouse is easy to say it , some times it"s helpe but is not easy to give upp so easy wenn you have ben with someone for so long it"s breaking..

Answer 6

i totally agree wit u.......i couldnt stop thinkin of her but nn1 cared......:-[