time off work?

Question

I have had a week off work (official holiday) then the week after was bank holiday so nobody worked anyway - on the friday i disovered my bank had withdrawn my overdraft from me leaving me to wait until tuesday to sort my bills/landlord etc out meaning a day off work - i rang them and told them exactly what is going on - today i woke up feeling way too stressed out to go to work cus of the financial problems I have but am worried to ring them - everyone has problems and they deal with it but it seems i dont have the energy to keep explaining and am slowly becoming a victim of my own circumstance - technically i cannot afford to work as the wage is poor and i dropped 6000£'s per year for this job due to being unemployed for 6 months - this has not helped - do i be open with my boss as he did help me out giving me the job in the first place

Answer 1

You "can not afford to work." You're "a victim of your own circumstance." You're "too stressed out to go to work."

Quit coming up with excuses and take responsibility for your life. You expect your employer to pay you when you don't show up for work? Would you show up for work without pay? See, it's a two-way street.

Seek professional counseling. You're wallowing in self-pity and coming up with excuses to ruin your own life. You really need help before you spiral out of control.

Answer 2

First you have to know that many people are or have gone thru similar situations. Your first stop should be your physician to discuss symptoms of depression. On the financial side you need to make a plan for repayment starting with the most important item first and work down in ascending order. Don't telephone or speak to anyone who calls you about debt. Outline you plan in writing and afterward just refer them to your plan. If you can't do this find someone who can help you. You can work yourself out of this situation with patience and time. If you were feeling better perhaps you could get a part-time job for awhile.

Answer 3

Yes.

Answer 4

no