I have a colleague who tries to degrade me whenever I ask for his professional help. he criticizes my knowledge and treats me like an idiot, and if i protest to his behavior he denies his rudeness.
2006-08-30 01:28:14 · 15 answers · asked by mostafa 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Kill them with Kindness.
When he says; You are so stupid. You so, "Yes, I am and that is why I came to you, the great oricle"
When he says; You are worthless slime. You say, "Thank you that is the nicest thing you've said to me today!"
When he denies his rudeness; You say, "GOTCHA SUCKER YOU'RE ON VIDEO !"
:o)
Jerry
2006-08-30 01:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them or try super kindness. When he is rude be extra nice and thank him for his every criticism.Praise him beyond limits and just be totally nice to him and when he makes a mistake or has even a small problem exaggerate it beyond limit and look sad and disappointed as if you expected only the very best from his side.In short praise him so much that he reaches the cloud seven and then let him crash down at the smallest pebble.BEST OF LUCK!!
2006-08-30 01:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do not change on your porch lights or beautify your position. Edit: leave a small backyard sprinkler operating on the direction in the front of the door. which could be a significant hint to flow away =p develop up, this is purely one nighttime a year, and this is especially for little childrens.
2016-12-05 23:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by tutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask for his help unless you absolutely have to - document his criticism and actions that you find degrading and speak privately with a supervisor.
2006-08-30 01:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the people I know are like that too. I would say that you should find another source for information. If you cant then just don't take anything he says to heart. Just let it go and think to yourself that one day all that will come back to him and hit him hard.
2006-08-30 01:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Inuchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him ad say "Hey ___ I could really use your expertise in..... no, nevermind, you'll just make me feel like an idiot for asking. I'll go ask someone else. Sorry for disturbing you" And smile politely and walk away
2006-08-30 01:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jenae, TV (tempter of the vile) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for him and treat him as you would like to be treated and dont waver, if he continues then sometimes after a while ask him hay your so smart and you ante learned nothin yet.. if im that dum what does it make you if you cant learn nothin from a dummy? that will get his goat or just say i no you are but what am i?
2006-08-30 01:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by landk916 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After he says or does something degrading to you, just ask "does that make you feel better now?" Hopefully he will be embarassed.
2006-08-30 01:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do on to others as they do on to you
2006-08-30 01:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to be sickeingly sweet to rude people at work. Be the bigger person.
2006-08-30 01:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by getagrip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋