im so jealous of the girls my boyfriend has been with. one of them is a dancer, the other is a stripper! it makes me so jealous and makes me think he's only with me because they finished him. it makes me feel so bad is that wrong?
2006-08-30 01:19:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it is wrong - you must be a very insecure person, which is not very attractive to the opposite sex (sorry to be so blunt). If you show your jealousy to your boyfriend then he is going to get really fed up and leg it. Just remember, it is YOU he has chosen to be with, not them. Don't drive him away with your insecurities. Hope it works out for you.
2006-08-30 01:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was a dancer and a stripper and thats why i had lots of boyfriends they was enjoying the attention of being looked at and what they was going with at the time but deep down they didnt love me they loved my job so dont be hard on yourself i would say now he knows what he wants and its not what he had in the past it was the fact of what they done believe me.
2006-09-02 23:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i have the same problem try not to think about them it wont help, im sure there are ugly 1s he has been with 2, just keep that in mind u are at the top of the list. i hate feeling jealous it makes it very hard. think of the people you have been with that are better than him and how you feel towards them he probly feels the same about his xgirlfriends.
2006-08-30 02:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is natural. The foundation of a good relationship is open communication. So you should talk about this with you boyfriend. This way he knows how you feel. Be careful how you address this with him. Men do not want to be with a someone who nags.
2006-08-30 01:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by pattiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They finished with him so he's not gonna go back with them is he?
Chill out enjoy your relationship with him. If he is dating you because you are beatiful on the inside and lovely to look at in his eyes on the outside then you're sorted.
I've dated models (cat Walk) and they can be a nightmare. I prefer ladies or normal breading.
2006-08-30 02:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong. It is natural for you to be jealous. I was jealous of my fiance's ex's because they were so hot and I am not. Just think...he is with YOU and not them. That has to mean something!
2006-08-30 01:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hes with you now,don't let your jealousy get in the way of what you have right now,he probably feels the same about your ex boyfriends,be happy xx
2006-08-30 01:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to be jealous are you sure that he did not dump them .Maybe he was fed up of being with people who flashed their body for cash and wanted someone who respects themselves and leaves their clothes on for him to enjoy .Do not think badly of yourself he is with you cause you are you .If you are still worried ask him what he likes most about you and also ask him why he finished with ex's
2006-08-30 01:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because you think they are better than you ,when they are not your insecurity stems from not feeling worthy of him ,not from the other gals he was with . build your self esteem ,..ironically when you dont "need" anyone in your life ..thats the best time to get into a relationship because you dont freak out about what they do .because your sense of self worth isnt based on compareing yourself to anyone or being with anyone its comeing from inside you .
2006-08-30 01:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you feel bad for what your boy friend picked if you know your good for him you think that but dont let any body actions make you think different. if you think he just chooses you because nobody eles wants him i would leave him because he will have you wrapped round his little finger anyway do what you thinks best x
2006-08-30 01:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by boff1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋