my cousins boyfriend is cheating on her i know this for sure since he and i go to the same university on campus he is fooling around with another girl that girl thinks he is a saint and so does my cousin. i afraid to tell because i know she is going to ask for proof what kind of proof can i get her she is engaged to the guy and he has go the audacity to tell my cousin that i might come and tell her he is cheating on her, and he also told me what happens on campus stays on campus. I could just ignore the situation, or i could get my cousin out of a bad situation, he is also an alcoholic and potential abuser. what should i do, friends suggestions video him with the other girl on campus and show it to my cousin as proof. not sure what to do please help.
2006-08-30 00:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My cousin was cheating on her husband with other guys and flirting with my best friend(hes a guy)who i introduced since i was in love with him(he didnt cheat on me since we were friends then)but trust me when her husband asked me i so wanted to tell but i didnt since they were married i didnt want to break up a marriage.he asked me many times but i refused to talk or meet to answer his questions.its different with u,they are not married please do tell ur cousin with proof needs to find out know truth!i know how ur feeling ive been there done that!
2006-08-30 01:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a duty to inform your cousin about the cheating. There your duty ends. No videographing business and all.
After your duty ends, it is the sole botheration of your cousin to find out the truth and act accordingly.
I wish I could have a kind relative like you.
2006-08-30 07:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by iqqy_aiwa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u suld tell ur cousin,no one will be more concern on but her family,if ur cousin know u well dat ur not capable of telling a lie or just really concern about her,she will try to listen and find a way to see it with her own eyes,but if she don't want to believe u its her folt at least u have done ur part as a concern cousin.
2006-08-30 09:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it... she'll find out... best thing to do is avoid getting caught in the problem...
2006-08-30 07:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id tell her, if she doesnt believe it then theres nothing more you can do.
2006-08-30 07:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by h_a_n_d_f_u_l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋