2006-08-30 00:38:59 · 20 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Peoples ideas of boyfriend varies. Some people call guys they date a boyfriend...when in fact no agreement or commitment has been made to be exclusive. You cant cheat on someone who isnt technically exclusive with you....and many people date a lot of people.
If you did make a commitment and decided against that, at some point...you need to tell your "boyfriend" that you just want to keep dating others because you are being unfair otherwise. He too could be out doing...errr dating others.
If he is under the misaprehension that you want exclusivity, then you should be upfront about the fact THAT is not what you want from him right now. Mind you, if you've dated him long enough to consider him a boyfriend...it is ok to say to yourself....he's not who I want anymore...and to let him go, hoepfully to someone that appreciates him more than you ever could and who has integrity.
You really arent a very nice person, are you? Or maybe just a bit naive or thick? Get a bit older, grow a conscience AND empathy before you tell any other guy that he is your boyfriend. Tell them all that you are a playette, so that they wont bother getting too close to you, that it will hurt them.
2006-08-30 00:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex is sex. Bill Clinton our ex-president convinced lots of young kids out there, that having oral sex was not having sex. Remember the lie he told, "I did not have sex her that young lady"? Just goes to show you how stupid he was and how he could influence our youth. Any contact you would have with another person that would be classified as private area is having sex. Even touching some one down there in a way is having sex. Be sure to tell you boy friend and see what he says.
2006-08-30 00:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is oral "SEX". Just think of how you would see your boyfriend recieving oral sex from someone else. Would that be cheating?
2006-08-30 00:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by eyesinthedarkness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes starts out to be OK. Than you want more. Next you will be having sex with another guy and not your boyfriend.
So you shouldn't do anything with another guy. ONLY IF YOU LEAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND NOW.
Were is the TRUST at there.
Also would you mind if your boyfriend did the same???????
2006-08-30 00:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on!!! You really need to ask that question? Sex is sex...regardless of what Bill Clinton says. Quit trying to rationalize your actions.
2006-08-30 01:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unless:
- he has said it's OK
- he has asked you to do this
- he is there with you (watching or as part of group sex)
- it was in a dream
- you were unconcious, asleep or on drugs of some kind.
- you have a long enough tongue and were doing yourself.
2006-08-30 00:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone gets inside your knickers apart from your boyfriend the it's cheating on your boyfriend!!!
2006-08-30 00:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by whyme? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said oral sex. it is still sex with your husband or not. in this case not so it definetly is bheating.
2006-08-30 00:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kaby_72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your boyfriend thinks is cheating, some people have different views on what is considered cheating..to most yes it is cheating.
2006-08-30 00:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Bill Clinton
he's an expert on that matter!
2006-08-30 00:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋