ever since i met this boy I know that he is a gay or bi male. bec. of his acts and voice but still im falling for him. I can't help it. I see him w/ some other gurls not boys. What should I do? Shpuld i love him or not? HOW????
2006-08-30 00:28:26 · 6 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Did he tell you he was gay?
If you're falling in love with him talk to him and find out. It's not complicated. Maybe he has a speach impediment or maybe he puts on the gay act because it makes cute girls chase him. Find out for sure before you give up on him. If he's gay pretty obvious he's not a good target for romance, move on.
2006-08-30 00:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you fall in love with. I think you're the same girl who asked about being crazy about a guy who might be gay.....Talk to him. Ask him if he's gay -- in a nice way.
If he is gay, walk away because you will get hurt. There is no sense hoping for someone you can't have. If he's bi, you might stand a chance, but know he will always have feelings for men too. Can you deal with that? Personally I think it's time to walk away and start meeting other people.. .
2006-09-02 01:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant help who you fall in love with but you can choose to distance yourself from this person so that you dont estrang this reltionship anymore or hurt yourself in the process. YOu are a F-a-g Hag and will set yourself up for heartbreak! Please Abor right now, leave the gay man as just a friend or else it bite you in the booty!
2006-08-30 03:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by david s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your mind tell you, do not be afraid to show your love for him, see what he likes and talk to him about it; base ball, foot ball, music, dancing, etc. talk and discus about his projects, conversation is the best tool.
2006-08-30 01:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by the way, why is it "him"? just because he's gay/bi, it doesn't mean he isn't a guy!
2006-08-30 07:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cliche, but, go with the flow.
2006-09-02 16:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋