i met a girl at a club 1night...she's really beautiful, sexy, nice personality(thats what i thought), everything..you name it!! after that went out for a few times..! i really thought i can be with her, well after a while she turned out to be a total b#tch..!! everytime i tell her that i don't think it's gona work, she starts to cry...she also tried to comit suicide 3 times everytime i tell her it's over...
my Q is: how the hell can i get this freak out of my life?? is the only option left to buy her a book called: how to suceed in committing suicide?
2006-08-30 00:20:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start crying too and tell her your going to commit suicide if you two keep going out. She'll get the message. She's trying to control you. RUN and don't look back! I doubt your the first guy she did this too nor will you be the last.
2006-08-30 00:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for the whole world. But she tried to commit suicide. So you say. To avoid complications tell some one close to her and responsible(either her friend or brother or some one)that you want to end the relation and she should do nothing stupid. After that you back off and do not contact her or answer her calls.
2006-08-30 07:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girlss who say they want to commit suicide, are just saying that to make you feel guilty, they dont really have the guts to do it.
I think you should just tell her again calmly that you dont think it gonna work, if she goes psycho and says that thats what she wants to do, ask her if she tinks having you in her life is more important then living? Ask her if she has hope and dreams?
Tell her that life is what you make of it, she can be happy with or without you its up to her! And if she throws you a line about having problems etc, then you should tell her to seek professional help cos if you stay with her you will both be unhappy.
finally if she still persists about doing it tell her to go ahead becoz if she really wanted to do it, she would have succeeded the first time.
she ought to get help...........
2006-08-30 09:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recently had a family member try and commit suicide and she only told me just before she tried she didnt think i was strong enough to stop her she wanted me to live with the guilt for the rest of my life but i did stop her i called the ambulence and they took her to hospital where she had to stay for bout three weeks to get over it.
2006-08-30 07:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by vixen19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love all these answers especially Lynnzzz...yeah give her the book and she'll get the point. She has issues dude and you shouldn't have to change your life cuz she's a freak...just use a stern voice..."LOOK, ITS OVER, GET YOUR SHHIT AND GO!" Or something like that!
2006-08-30 07:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is facing some kind of problems.
everyone has their problems. you should be ready for this before you get into a relationship.
now the thing is you should help her overcome her problems 1 by 1 and not avoid her because of her temper since she is showing signs of problems she is facing.
a relationship needs patience and concern.
maybe you can go to a counsellor with her if you cannot solve it by yourself for her.
mercury of love
2006-08-30 07:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHHHH Be nice lol , well when someone tries to get all fatal like that its all about the control they want to have on you move on dont play her game
2006-08-30 07:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tried to kill herself why isn't she been committed into a hospital ? Get her committed and let professionals deal with her.
2006-08-30 07:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her that it's not gonna work...Tell her that you love her, and make her life miserable as much as you can... Try to make her to get rid of you. And yes....buy her a book....maybe she'll just learn ;))
2006-08-30 08:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by danutz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it is over and do NOT talk to her. If you let her guilt trips control you - you may as well marry her crazed asss now.
2006-08-30 07:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋