i have a friend who is a girl ,we both r not speaking to each other from one year .we both know that we cant live without talking to each other but we dont talk to each other .and its our last year at schoool .so i wanna know how to solve this prob?????/
2006-08-30 00:20:43 · 16 answers · asked by hi fi star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if I would be in your shoes first I will put on side my proud.. and I will make the first step.. due to my feelings for this friend are real and sincere and I experienced that I feel worst without speaking with her then speaking..
so go head... and not being so proud.. Feelings are more important then reasons...
2006-08-30 00:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is your both too proud and that will not get you anywhere.Do you know what's going happen if you don't talk to each other? you'll regret that for the rest of your life and will loose a precious thing..true friendship which is rare to find.
So be humble and confident about yourself.Go break the ice!...mind you, you have nothing to loose if you do so.If she'll not respond...then,that's her problem!!! Atleast you'll live with yourself,knowing that you tried your best to revive your friendship.
2006-08-30 07:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by kart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation with her! But If you think that would be too weird, then send her an email saying that you miss talking to her. That would be sweet and I'm sure she would talk to you. Why did you stop talking anyway? Did you get in a fight? If you did then just talk to her, She will probably be happy.
2006-08-30 07:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a mature or maturing individual and start to talk to her. Express what said in your question about not talking yet love to reestablish the talking relationship. You need to take the action. She could be struggling the same conflict within herself and your kickstarting the conversation may help. Good luck.
2006-08-30 08:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by EagleDotCom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need to sit down and talk about the problem, not talking will get u both nowhere and if it is bothering u so much to not talk then just talk it will help u alot. i just went through something like it and i am glad that i talked because things r now going to get better. hope this helps
2006-08-30 07:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill your ego,,,before it kills you. What both of you are doing right now is just an ego clash.Ego destroys many things,and you realize that only after the damage is done.Try to speak first,that will solve the problem.That wont show that you have bent down.it will show that you are sensible and humble.Good luck
2006-08-30 07:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by DEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you comparing life inside school and life would be outside school?
if so, it is best you tell her that both of you should treat each other as normal friends 1st as you and her are going into the society outside soon if both of you are not bf and gf yet.
however, if you and her are bf and gf already, i suggest you tell her something seems wrong as both of you are going into the society outside. tell her that both of you should give each other time to adjust to the society outside before commiting anything further as there may be regrets. tell it gently.
the objective is to let her and yourself know both of you are facing stress getting into the society outside subconsciously.
mercury of love
2006-08-30 07:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her someone has to be the mature one and get over why your not talking to each other
2006-08-30 07:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Fuzzywuzzygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break the ice. INVITE ON A FORMAL dinner for 2 candle light but dont do what i wouldnt do
2006-08-30 07:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Musah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her?
If you can't live without talking to her, why haven't you spoke? It looks to me like you can live without talking to her because you've not done it for so long....
2006-08-30 07:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by DJ Fizzy xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋