i have a crush....but the prob. is his a gay or a "bi male" or something. Should I continue my feelings for him?
2006-08-30 00:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
IF you are female and he isn't ....
NO.
It won't work out.
Save yourself and him alot of pain.
2006-08-30 00:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you have a crush on him?
If he accepts your liking him as more than a friend are you ready to accept him as being a bi male? Unless you are ready to deal with the fact that you won't change him and make him into someone that likes females only then you will have a very hard time of it with him when you find that he is also seeing other guys while he is seeing you.
If he is bi and he spends time with other men then you need to be very careful when it comes to sex, you don't want to expose yourself to the possibility of contracting aids.
I don't think I could deal with not knowing the sexual medical history of this person and all his former partners. It's bad enough trying to be safe in a regular heterosexual partnership muchless one like this.
Good luck and be careful.
2006-08-30 07:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful, Crystal. Has he ever told you or others that he is gay or bi? What makes you think he might be? Whatever the case, don't let your heart take over here. Think, and think hard. If he did turn out to be bisexual what would your life be like? Then again, is he mature enough to settle down with you (if it got that far) and be loyal just to you?
2006-08-30 07:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's gay, you might as well turn and walk away NOW. He will never be interested in you the way you want. If he's bi, you might stand a chance but you will always be wondering if he would prefer to be with a guy. Do you want to drive yourself crazy?
2006-08-30 07:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Some girls choose to have crushes on a gay guy because he's "safe" and "unavailable." But sooner or later you have to take a risk and go find yourself a guy who can return your romantic love. Gay buddies are great...but you need a boyfriend.
2006-08-30 08:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have a crush on him,write a love letter to him.Also tell in your letter that you'll have to talk to him.Be sure that he will know you and he'll talk to you.Then ask him if he's gay or not.
2006-09-03 04:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by heidi_springle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, go to the movies with him, ask if he is a relationship, make a pass, be interested in his stories, kiss him good bye. And you'll find out.
2006-08-30 07:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. if you're a girl and he is bi, there should be no problem. if he is gay, then it's off-limits.
2006-08-30 09:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his e mail send him anynoms e mails and ask him those questions or send him men naked pic and another time send him women naked pic see which one you get a reply to
2006-08-30 07:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by erotic_cub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you before what to do.
2006-08-30 08:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋