One last time....?

Question

The coolest woman you know - the one that all the other women want to be like - is admired and respected and people follow her advice - what is she like as a person and what makes her a leader?

(I have asked this question twice now, but nobody seems to want to answer it - I don't understand why? Please let me know what is so weird about this question if you think it is weird.)

Not celebrities and not your mother.

Answer 1

I have known quite a few women like this, they all had different qualities, some things they shared in common and that made them good leaders - they were supportive, open, intelligent, warm, hard working, tough/strong, caring and focused on the job in hand oh and very important - had a sense of humour. I work in the care field so I guess those are the qualities I most admire. I have known men with the same qualities, but you don't get as many of them in my line of work.

Answer 2

This question is sooo high school. That is probably why nobody wanted to answer it in the first place. In the real world, there is no coolest woman. You hang and talk to different women to just enjoy the company of someone that knows what you are going through. You could care less about if they are a 'leader'.

Answer 3

Surely asking it twice and not getting a response indicates that your question is not weird, just that people are either not interested or cannot think of a decent answer. Personally I couldn't think of a decent answer, plus, why would people want to be like someone else? In addition to your question, I understand admiring or respecting people for who "they" are, but why would anyone want to be exactly like someone else? What is wrong with individuality, making your own mark on the world?

Answer 4

I don't understand

- 'Coolest' -

- 'a woman who is a role model and whom others want to be like, admired and respected - following her advice'.....

'what makes her a leader'......

Leader in what? as a WAG, a so-called Supermodel or what?

Usually when we hear of someone being 'influential' in the way you are indicating, my thought goes to all of those 'girls' who want that are a 'noisy lot' and behave in an ugly fashion, and who are just a tiny minority of women / girls in society.

I'm really unsure of what lies as the base line of your question!! or, What Your Question Actually is!

Is it that you are asking ~ 'Who is the coolest woman you know, the one ...etc etc'?

Regards.
Sash.

Answer 5

Some people may not want to anser it because it would putting a friend's name out openly on the internet.

I do have a "coolest" friend, it's simply because she is the nicest person I have ever met. She will go out of her way for any of her friends. She gives good parenting advice. I've never heard her gossip. She loaned me all of the baby clothes she had without me asking, she just dropped them off. (I've given most of them back now and in pretty good condition too) Pretty much if I needed something and she could give it, all I would have to do is ask.

Answer 6

The coolest woman I know is my best friend. Lets just call her D. I've known her my entire life. I can tell her anything and I know she would never judge me, she would offer advice from her heart and even if I didn't take it, she would support me when it all went t!ts up. She is the closest thing that I have to a sister.

She laughs with me, she cries with me, sometimes we act like grown ups, sometimes we act like 9 year olds. We say stuff to each other that no one gets or understands and then they frown at us when we burst into peals of laughter.

She is so chilled out, it's unbelievable, and her solution to all problems is a cup of tea and the biscuit tin!

She is not appreciated by the one who is supposed to love her, in my opinion and that makes me mad, but I keep my mouth shut.

We are so in tune with another, that we never need say anything to each other, we can just interpret one anothers looks, shock, horror, delight, disgust....

We are at a time in our lives where we are watching one anothers beautiful children grow, comparing them to us when we were younger.

I'm not sure leader is what I would use to describe her.... she is just another fellow angel, sent to us to love and cherish all around her. She really is part of my soul.

There are no real words to describe her, but I hope I've done my best.

Answer 7

No celebrities or my Mum?
Right oh, so the woman I'd name U won't know.
A friend of mine, she's survived a violent marriage, a still-born baby, her flat being fire-bombed & an unprovoked attack in the street, when she lost an eye.
She's loved & admired by all that know her.
Take my word 4 it, if I had her strength, determination & resilience, I'd B perfect but she's far more forgiving & stronger than me.
Kerrie UR a star!

Answer 8

Not celebs,that makes it difficult.I always admired Lady Di but as I cant pick her it has to be my friend Debbie.What a woman,she is always there for advice and comfort when you are ill.No problem any one has is too much trouble for her,she will drive miles to help a friend and do anything.She is a registered childminder,great cook,teacher and friend to the children that she cares for,I really could go on.Yes I admire her very much.

Answer 9

That's a difficult question to answer. I believe everyone should be them self, although they usually don't and follow someone. There will always be two kinds of people leaders, and followers. Its OK to look up to someone who you believe is good, powerful, etc... but we should all be individuals :) This is a very difficult question to answe. Good luck

Answer 10

its a silly question. Maybe that the woman in question is pushy, pushes her advice on people, pushes people around, pushes people into taking her advice. That does not make someone cool. Bossiness makes her leader.
Maybe she only thinks that everyone wants to be just like her.