i am a gay how will i make my self to be loving girls insted of men only?

Answer 1

well if your really gay you can't do much about it.. you could be close to girls though.. like tell her if the colour matches her or something.. but i guess that if you really want to change you could ignore the guys around you.. dont do uhm what gay people do.. look at girl porn or something..

Answer 2

You won't.

gay (g) Pronunciation Key
adj. gay·er, gay·est
Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to persons of the same sex.

Gay's aren't to be loving girls insead of men only. At best you could try dating women and see if you're bisexual but it's rare that people don't have a good instinct for who they are sexually. The bigger question might be why would you want to change who you are if it makes you happy?

Answer 3

I'm afraid that if you find men attractive then your gay, if you push your self to like the opposite sex it won't work you can't control your feelings, it has to happen naturally.

Answer 4

Honestly, I don't think it's possible to go against yourself . You are born gay, you can't change that , you need to except it , and find out where you can be excepted. You will live a much fuller and honest life! Your conscious won't allow you to go against itself.

Answer 5

if u really lyk men only then u dont need to be seen to be lykin gals,unless u swing both ways.hey be gay and proud,i know i am!!

Answer 6

Do what your heart tells you to do. You cannot MAKE yourself love someone that you dont. That would be cheating the other person.

Answer 7

why would you want to? Go somewhere you are accepted. The gays that I know would open their arms and doors to someone in crisis... THEY KNOW WHERE YOU HAVE BEEN good luck!