Everything happened under my nouse, all the people around knew it ane I didn't. She knew I was against this kind of stuff becouse she is only 16 so she didn't tell me. she broke up with him after her parents knew about it. then she told me. Should I be ofended, for her not trusting me? I adviced her when she told me and I was a good friend, i felt sorry about what had happened to her, but I still cant swallow tha fact that she kept this thing from me. Should I forget about it?
2006-08-29 23:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by avril 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What the hell business is it of yours? Who are you to tell your friend who she can and cannot hang out with? Are you some sort of controlling, possessive lesbian? Maybe your friend didn't tell you because you're too over-bearing, and she's afraid of you.
2006-08-29 23:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? are you jealous with the boy? or feel betrayed because she keep it secret. Maybe there is reason behind. Sometimes people have to do something on their own, explore on their own. Just forget about it, at least she told you about it afterwards. Still keep in touch with her, keep on giving advice. P.U.S.H. (Pray Until Something Happens)...as a friend you need to pray for her. God bless you.
2006-08-29 23:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Romel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend an andvice even to your best friend shall be given only in two cases. first, when its asked for & second, when its matter of life and death. Also its her personal matter if she goes out with someone. See if you are her good friend, then take her into confidence and counsel her. Thats what she needs at the moment, and not that you leave her when she needs you. Be reasonable.
2006-08-29 23:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the time u knew it, u coud ask her abt the issue..as being a gud frend, she hear ur advice...if she didnt, let her go ahead..tht may not b an end, in my case, evry1 has own decisions...one mistake is ok...shud learn sumthin 4m each, n neva make it again..enjoy..
2006-08-30 02:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by prasad c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all u should not let her be ur frend now as she might do something like this in any other case too
sorry to say but babes plz check the spellings in ur question
2006-08-29 23:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very unclear at what you are asking, sweetie. But, whatever your friend did or did not do is her business........not yours. Stop trying to control who she is and what she chooses to do with her own life........take care of what you need to do. In other words, Butt Out!
2006-08-29 23:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the event is realy bad. But what to do? Its happend already. Just forget it.
2006-08-29 23:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be worse.
She could have gone out with a baboon.
You wouldn't swallow that ,girl..
2006-08-29 23:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by satnee2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about it. it happens sometimes in everybody's life.
2006-08-29 23:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by rajeshtnaidu@yahoo.co.in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see its her life.
and remember one thing that we don't share everything with everyone, howsoever close he or she may be.
2006-08-29 23:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋