2006-08-29 23:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by Hawkeye V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh boy, go to some kind of rehabilitaion center. they will be able to help you. And whats more you could ask about one to your doctor.
2006-08-29 23:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your religious start with your priest/rabbi/other. If you're not start with your familly doctor. Also, if you haven't already done so, admit that you are an addict/alcoholic (as applicable) to your wife. The first step of solving a problem is to admit its existance.
Either way if you want to save your marriage (and possibly your life) you are going to need to need inpatient rehab treatment to get off the coke. Coke is a terrible drug to be addicted to. The odd line of the stuff doesn't usually do any harm but if you can't stop then it will kill you in many nasty ways - but not before it has wrecked your bank account and your marriage.
Go see the medics and sort yourself out a place in rehab and do it now.
As to the alcohol, you say you "drink every other day" which suggests (unless you're drinking a quart of whisky) that you aren't addicted to that (or you'd be drinking every day).
If you think you have had enough to drink, though, then you can double-detox from alchohol and cocaine in the same rehab period. Alcohol kills a hundred times more people than cocaine on a yearly basis so it would be shame if you got off the coke only to kill yourself with the drink.
2006-08-30 06:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm hoping your question is a joke (in some form).
You've been married for 28 years? Does your wife know you have this problem? Probably the alcohol every other day, she knows but does she know about the coke? I still wonder if you are just tying to pull something on us, because you can't even spell the drug correctly. People tthat don't know how to speak or spell anything would not have been able to spell the rest of the question correctly.
2006-08-30 06:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by dolphinroc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a rehabilitation center. BUT I advise you though it is pointless if you don't make an effort to change. It also take time. It is not a quick fix thing. It take months even years (depending on the speed of progress) to rehabilitate yourself. You also need support from everyone around including your spouse and/or child/ren (if you have any). You can't be alone at a time like this. You need to realize that you need help and don't feel afraid or embarrassed to ask.
2006-08-30 08:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by jessica b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and join self help groups known as Narcotics Anonymous and attend the meetings regularly and follow what they say. You will find you will recover and give up the habit once and for all. Many have recovered. You can do so also. If you do not know the address talk to your pastor in local church or your Doctor. They will guide you to reach these groups.
2006-08-30 06:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make the choice that you want to stop and then do it. check yourself into a rehab center. Make sure that you are doing this for yourself or else it will fail. You must be strong. You have already done the hardest part admitting that you have a problem. GOOD LUCK TO YOU and GOD BLESS. Make sure that you have the love and support from your family.
2006-08-30 06:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek Christ, repent and run to God with all you have. Go to a good bible teaching church and start attending. Don't let satan destroy you but let Jesus Christ make you a new creation in Him.
He can take that all away from you like He did for me. He wants to give you your family back and a sound mind.
2006-08-30 06:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop to live or continue and die. You are the one that needs to make the choice.
Don't give me the crap you cant stop. There are plenty of places you can go to get help. You are just not wanting to get help.
Choice is yours and only yours
2006-08-30 06:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one step at a time......
one minute at a time........
ask for help.......
if you can not afford it and you really want to get clean......
do something that will get you arested.....but not hurt your record to bad.
get smashed for the last time and go to a public place and lay down on the curb.......or on the floor of a store......
they will put you in treatment for four days.....or if your lucky and threaten them as they arrest you.....you will get 30 to 90 days in jail.......do what you have to do....
i say this as a friend.....
you can do it.
my name is rock...
and i am a recovering drunk, drug user.......
and that is how i have become sober .....1 year.....3 mts........and 21 days........13 hours.........
good luck......its hard
2006-08-30 06:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an N.A. meeting listed in phone book, I bet you will be surprised at what you learn! - Good Luck
2006-08-30 06:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by yacheckoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your spouse, let them know what is going on and get to rehab. It's a rough road.
2006-08-30 07:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋