when i teach homework to my son i cannot control my anger ,age 7 yrs how to enjoy with my son?

Answer 1

it takes time to be able to control anger. as a parent, always remember that your son is learning things for the first time and will not get it the first time around. if you find yourself getting angry, breathe and take a moment to keep calm before trying again to teach your son.

remember that you were once a kid yourself will help also. sometimes we forget that we've gone through the stage of being a kid and always think that kids will get everything they are being taught.

if worst comes to worst, hire a tutor.

Answer 2

Seriously, you need to look at what that is about for you. He is a little boy and cannot know everything. So why does he upset you so? I have a 2 year old boy and I get frustrated when I can't understand what he is asking or when he gets whiny or contrary. However, I have to keep reminding myself that I am the adult and he is a child. He needs love and understanding. Not yelling. It is very difficult. I know. I try to use the example my mother gave me. She home schooled me one year and it was a wonderful time. She just guided me and encouraged me. I have had teachers that were real jerks. I had a piano teacher that had no patience. I almost quit music altogether because of that dude. When you were little, did you have a bad experience with a parent or teacher?

Answer 3

Firstly, if you are expressing this anger, that's something you need to kerb. If you are just getting angry quietly, what is the reason for this?

When I give help with homework, I sometimes get frustrated with the person if they don't get what I consider to be simple. But then again, i've already learnt it, of course it is easy.

be patient, keep trying new ways to explain things. if he likes pictures or stories, then use pictures or stories. Celebrate the little victories and let the mistakes be known in a calm manner, mention them then move on.

Keep it positive and remember to laugh occasionally.

Answer 4

You get angry? Why? Does he get easily frustrated or bored, which then makes you frustrated and upset? Or do YOU get easily frustrated first? Really, in either case, you need to learn to control your own emotions. Getting angry over helping your son with homework will do nothing but harm. Perhaps you could talk to his teacher on some ways to help him best. Without knowing what you're angry about, it's hard to give more specific advice, though.

Answer 5

I can understand your emotions because sometimes had to explain some points in studies to my nephew and it may be very irritating. The good thing is that you understand that you have to do something with such attitude of yours. Just never shout at you boy and try to calm yourself down. For me it helped to think that at such age I wasn't that smart and that's why kids are justified. Patience and patience...Good luck!

Answer 6

My brother had a diverse arm harm yet popping out of it claimed it to be "enormously plenty impossible" to flow just about all of his hands. It took basically some excercising of the muscle mass to get better that circulate. ideal desires to you, your loved ones, and your son.

Answer 7

first ask urself, why are u mad?

my mum used to tell me that my bro is very slow in learning

therefore she understands that patience is very much needed

maybe try tolerating and keep going slowly at ur son.. dun pressurise him or anything... it may complicate things..

try giving treats if he gets things right and explain and not shout at him if he does things wrongly..

gd luck with ur son...

Answer 8

You have to detach yourself emotionally from him. You get angry easily because his incapabilty to read/comprehend a subject is being translated unconsciously as YOUR failure too..

Dont be. You need a time out.

Answer 9

Um, probably ask him exactly what he doesn't get, if he says like 'EVERYTHING!!!' go through whatever you're teaching with him slowly and make sure he's following along... And when your going through whatever and he says like 'I don't get that', then go over it...