my best friend doesnt understand me. HELP!!?

Question

once i told my best friend tht i got a lil jealous when she started spending more time with another friend ( bcuz my best friend thinks that she needed help!!) and lesser time with me....after listenin to all this, she said tht i dont understand her at all bcuz i should be knowing that no one can replace me n not get jealous....but hey temme...hw m i supposed to understand tht cuz she hardly does nethin to make me feel special...

the only reason y i told this to my best friend was because i needed some of her attention n love...but she didnt understand this...instead she shouted at me for not understanding her!!!!

Answer 1

your story reminds me of when my good friend told me off when i talked to another girl more..well..not that she love me or wanted to get my attention.but she thought i was avoiding her and stuff..and i really was just helping another girl but i always get mistaken for the wrong things..hey..but really..is this girl that she knows now..is she new or anything..if she is..then your best friend just wants to help out this girl..she didnt meant anything more..does she?you could like try joining in and helping this girl..maybe your best friend shouted at you cause she doesnt want you to think wrongly of her and how she is helping this other person..why dont you try sorting this our with her nicely..if she is just helping this new person around then it should be fine..right?but if there is other reasons..maybe try telling her how you feel..maybe from there she will understand you better and she wont shout at you..but trying talking to her at the right timing and stuff..if you do it too late..then yeah..you know what i mean..hope i helped ><

Answer 2

you remind me of my two bestfriends. *tears* ='( both of term are not in speaking tems right now & it's all because of another friend.
i think it was good of you to tell to her what you felt about the way she's been spending lesser time with you. it's really hard when you're used to have your bestfriend liteally at you side all the time, eh? but have you heard her explain on why she's spending lesser time wiht you but spending more time with that other friend? maybe that othe friend really needed her help. i don't know but i think it would be fair for the both of you if you both tell what you felt and eveything because friends are supposed to be open to one another. maybe the reason why she shouted at you is that because she's afraid that you're getting the wrong idea that she's going to replace you with that other friend. try sorting things out with her... if you two are really best friends, things will always be better in the end. good luck on you.