n she accepts it....i have discussed this with her n she says that she knows shes doin so...but she says she cant help it.....it hurts a lot wen i do stuff for her...n she doesnt even react positively....she told me that she cant be nice to me ( i dunno for wat reason!!).... n just yesterday, she said tht she doesnt deserve a friend like me n tht she is a very sucky best friend...
2006-08-29 22:43:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she once told me that if i wanted to quit this relationship then she wouldnt stop me....but she would feel a lot hurt as she has never had anyone so close to her..... n hey i cant ditch her.... m already emotionally very much attached to her!!!
2006-08-29 23:00:45 · update #1
how do you became best friends? and you should've asked her why did she agreed to become your best friend if she can't be like one. The problem sometimes is that, we thought that, that person is a best friend material, and yet we're not so sure if they can be always there for us....who can appreciate those things you've done for him/her. Be4 choosing a bestfrend, let the years pass and let's see if they are still our friend. But i don't mean that your bestfrend is bad.
2006-08-29 23:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Angeline_Love16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a friend and u should end the friendship b/w u two.
She is not loyal and she is not only taking advantage of u she is taking control of u.
I been there and i never liked it one bit when she told me i was a great friend ...i told her that she would never be if she uses people.
If i could be a good friend then what is her problem???..I never knew what was up with her but she keep telling me nice things but i never could coz thats just lying.
I told her that she is acting very immature and i don't want a friend like her....i didn't care if she was my only friend i had in the whole school.
i rather be alone then be used, if u don't do anything about it now ...down the road u will let people control u and boss u around but u just take it intill ur 30...and that ain't right!
2006-08-29 23:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to make new friends. i'm serious; locate new friends. don't be reliant on those friends for something, exceptionally an ego-develop; they'll in ordinary words help you down. growing up, I, too, had some closer than my different "parameter" friends. those 2 continuously enable me understand i became the third wheel, sit-in-the-back, "experience alongside" chum. If there became ever purely one extra cost ticket, or an journey that purely one extra individual could attend, i became handed over. certain, it damage like heck. yet I submit with it, year after year, because they were a lot of exciting and we continuously had exciting when we went out, 3 Musketeers type. i ultimately wised up, and gravitated in the direction of my quieter, extra introspective, "parameter" friends. and also you realize what? We had a blast. I grew to develop into brilliant friends with an ingenious little pink-headed woman, and our friendship has lasted into adulthood. improve your friendship base, and also you'd be taken aback at how a lot you received't omit out on anymore...
2016-12-05 23:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by poirrier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a friend takes u for granted I dnt think u should consider her as ur best friend. A friend is som1 who cares for u n who tries his best not to hurt u in any ways.
Sorry to tell u but ur friend is not a friend but a mere jerk who just takes advantage of u n ur kindness.... Better have no friend than have a friend like that.... She does not deserve a friend like u n u deserve mush better than her.... All the best dear n cheer up, the world is full of friends who can be real ones.
2006-08-30 18:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were truly your friend she would not treat you so badly. I have a friend right now who's going through something similar. His other "best friend" takes advantage all the time. I say "If you are a REAL best friend, you will stop taking advantage and be a friend. If not, get out."
Sometimes, being grown up is very difficult. Be strong, stand your ground and good luck!
2006-08-29 23:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she takes u for granted and she dislikes u and she has already stated that what r u waiting for move urself out of this frndship it will hurt but atleast being hurt once is much more better than being hurt every now and then when she takes u for granted.and actually and yes she dosen't deserve a frnd like u coz u r too much good for her
come on now cheer up and dump on her
2006-08-29 22:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r the type of person who is just a dog tail of everyone.I think it is high time you stand up for yourself and leave that friend of yours.You deserve someone who is better.
2006-08-29 22:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Fareda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends won't get troubled nor trouble each other... If she is your best friend then accept her as she is..Otherwise cut off the BEST and just be friends!!
2006-08-29 23:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing things for her and then she will notice what you really do do for her. when she realises she will apologise and then when you feel it is tiime to start doing things for her again she will appreciate you more. but i don't mean do it for half a day i mean a real amount of time so she has time to appreciate what you do! good luck x
2006-08-29 23:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them forever
2006-08-29 22:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by inferno_india 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋