how to entertain others, make myself more interesting and die to spend some time with time kind of guy... i dont know how to be full of surprises and charming. My girl friend likes this kind of guy. We both love each other but we get bored once we both are together.We both want to talk about interesting stuffs and spend the whole night but we run out of topics in an hour and get bored. cannot spend every day money and do some thing freaking. some idea to make life interesting at home when together other than sex, tv and games...
2006-08-29 22:36:45 · 6 answers · asked by B B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Asking the question "How to be spontaneous? " is the ultimate example of NOT BEING SPONTANEOUS....
"Be yourself" is really over-used, but there's something to it...
Another thing - show your interest in people (not just your girlfriend, or girls, but people, in general), ask them about themselves, and if any subject that they mention is your interest too, then talk about that further... That's one of the ways to it...
And if you want to do all this just for your girlfriend.... Well - you shouldn't then change yourself, but your girlfriend. If you're not what she wants, you shouldn't be with her, it's as easy as that... And that's one more thing about being yourself and spontaneous.
Maybe you should "explore" yourself (if you understand what I'm saying), and work on yourself a bit, to gain more self-confidence, cause I think you need it.
2006-08-29 23:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't have an ideal relationship. You shouldn't be bored in each other's company. Instead of sitting around looking at each other, get out and do something. There are plenty of free and inexpensive things to do. Simply being around different people together will also help. Try going to a museum, or a zoo, or to a book store together, or sign up for a new class to take together. Learning something new with that special someone is a great way to learn new things about each other. Best of Luck!
2006-08-30 01:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no magic formula to make you a more interesting person. Maybe there's nothing wrong with you, maybe you're just with the wrong person you have nothing in common with.
2006-08-29 22:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not somthing u learn its something cums from inside u, so u just try to be all what u have said but try to be normal to make the others feel u r normal not acting...
2006-08-29 22:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by smousa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is good to better yourself. But when it comes to relationships it is better to be yourself. If she desire qualities you don't have, maybe she doesn't want you.
Don't pretend to be someone your not.
2006-08-29 22:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't attrakt them let them atrrackt you
2006-08-29 22:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by nansy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋