2006-08-29 22:16:57 · 27 answers · asked by Gautam M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, of course it is, technically. Involuntary lustful thoughts are natural, though. It's how you deal with them - whether you build on them or whether you laugh them off that really determines how faithful you are both to yourself and the person you love.
2006-08-29 22:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you act upon those lustful thoughts. Personally I understand having lustful thoughts about someone other than your partner but just having those thoughts is not cheating. I am a girl and I feel that it is fine to look but not touch when I am in a relationship. Everybody is going to have those kinds of thoughts once in a while or even more often so therefore I myself am doing the same thing, but I don't see it as unfaithful, after all you gave up on that fantasy because you chose to be with your significant other rather than that person on the road or in the mall. It's only when you act upon those lustful urges/thoughts that I feel that it is being unfaithful because then you have made a conscious choice in being with another person other than your significant other.
2006-08-29 22:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by jo.jo_the_amazing_idiot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's unfaithful having lustful thoughts towards someone on the road or anywere else. If you are married, be sure that your wife has these king of thoughts towards other males too, even if she doesn't recognize it. It's just a natural impulse. I advise you to keep them for yourself though...
2006-08-29 22:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Agocs V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's perfectly normal to have lustful thoughts, and it's not being unfaithful. It's the same as thinking about killing someone does not make you a murderer. Thoughts are just that thoughts, we can't always control where our minds choose to take themselves.
2006-08-29 22:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming of a 'Thought' in your mind is out of your control but building a fantasy on that thought is in your hands. I wont call it being unfaithful on ur part unless you act on it or the thought stays with you for a long period. Appreciating the beauty is perfectly OK :) but fantasising it esp when you are along with your mate or trying to contact her comes under the purview of 'being unfaithful'.
2006-08-29 22:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by shan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with seeing beauty in other people. It doesn't matter if you see them physically attractive or sexually attractive. This is human nature and anyone who denies it is in serious denial. I am married and will always remain faithful. There isn't a woman alive who could change this. It's always okay to admire. Just remember there is a fine line between admiration and adulteration, know the difference between these two and you'll be alright.
2006-08-29 22:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not being unfaithful unless you act upon them. Trust me, there is not a single woman or man on this earth who has not had "impure" thoughts of another man or woman. It's called attraction. Don't worry about it. People are so quick to jump down your throat on here, they are the ones who seriously need help!
2006-08-29 22:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you look at it. According to the 10 commandments it is but if you are looking at it from the perspective of being a human, then no. Women have those same thoughts sometimes in wondering, what if.
2006-08-29 22:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but acting on it is. It would probably be best for your mental health and your relationship to reign it in a little bit though. Show me a straight guy who says he never has lustful thoughts about random women and I'll show you a liar.
2006-08-29 22:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not as a matter of fact this happens at a certain age when you are in your fantasy land it's normal , you just need to focus your self towards some game or any other activety which will keep your thoughts centeralised
2006-08-30 01:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by alag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋