Guys please help out. If not then why do you look?
2006-08-29 22:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by Ocean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I don't consider it cheating. You can be the most beautiful woman he's with but he will still look at other women because men are stimulated visually. They're just wired that way. As long as he KNOWS you're the one he wants to be with, you don't have anything to worry about.
2006-08-29 22:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband looks at other girls i would consider it cheating and i am talking from experience. The first time i caught him doing that, it made me feel like sh** I talked to him about it, and he stopped. But you need to keep an eye out just in case because you never know what looking can lead to,you know eye contact, exchanging phone numbers, which deteriorates the trust in a relationship. Don't you look good enough, so why should he be looking elsewhere? Don't let him make you feel insecure and unhappy with the way you look. You are beautiful to look at. When i asked my husband why he did it, he didn't know, it just happened, so you never know what can happen. I say confront him on it, and hopefully you put a stop to this nonsense before it escalates to something more.
2006-08-30 05:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by princez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart... men are made to admire beauty. Yes, I agree with some of our Y!Users - looking at other women while the GF is around is a sign of disrespect, also a sign that the guy is not cultured - maybe half-civilized. But you have to think about it this way - would you rather have your BF lie to you, or you see him for who he really is? Take the higher road. If men looks at other women while their girl is around - you can tell in their eyes whether they're just admiring or they just locked-eyes with the subject for a more lustful exchange of looks. The Girlfriend should make a mature and intelligent decision.
2006-08-30 05:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by calofficer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual. My spouse looks at other women, and I don't consider it cheating. If he didn't then I know something is wrong.
I have found that he looks no matter what type of woman - just that it's a woman.
2006-08-30 08:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you trust him then whats the problem..I always say you can look just don't touch......I took my husband to a titty bar on his birthday even bought him a lap dance...I love my husband very very much and he loves me back also
Like I say if you don't have TRUST then you have nothing!!!!! I trust my husband
2006-08-30 05:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah lookings ok, it is hurtfull sometimes (especially if they are preetier then you) but as long as they dont touch then that is fine or get a phone number,
Yeah lookings cool
2006-08-30 05:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as long as he loves me, does not sleep with them and comes back to me
2006-08-30 05:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he doesn't flirt around in front of me how would he feel if i looked at another guy? he wouldn't like it.lol
2006-08-30 05:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I would consider it disrespect.
2006-08-30 05:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I dont HE can look all he wants as long as he dont touch same with me
2006-08-30 05:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋