Am I dressing too immodest?

Question

I’m a 25 yrs old girl, but still in high school. Because I think I have already grown up enough, so I moddified my school uniform to bit a little sexier. School uniform I wear is a sheer and tight short-sleeves white blouse, and a tight white low-rise short-skirt. For lingerie, I wear “bikini like” white bra with thin strap string, and a low-rise g-string. So, either “bra-and-panties line” beneath my tight white blouse and tight short-skirt will not to visible.

What I’m wearing attracted many school boys and they spend more time lingering around me. I enjoy the attention from boys but I have little interests with them because they are so much younger than me.

But some other girls seem jealous with me, and start to accuuse me dressing like a slut. And this make me wonder if I’m acctually dressing inapproproately. Am I dressing too immodest?

p.s. I'm not living in US nor Europe, so the modesty may be a bit different

First, I must admit that I'm not a smart student, and that one of the reason I'm late in education. But I don't consider myself dumb.

Second, I think I'm a grown up girl. Appearing sexy in my school uniform is the only thing that I can do to express myself.

I think, being 25 yrs old mean I have already grown up woman and should be allowed to wear a more sexy and revealing school uniform.
I also must mention that I live in a hot humid climate country, even in my sheer school uniform I perspire a lot for the whole day.

Answer 1

No way, I think it is hott when girls are a little naughty. I do think that most high schoolers shouldn't dress that way because most aren't old enough, but I guess it is good if you are old enough. Be careful though, try not to dress out of other people's comfort zone. If you do it will be hard to make connections with other people (exept druggies and pimps)

Answer 2

So where do you live?

While you may enjoy the attention, it's not really the time or place to attract it when you are at school. You are there to learn, not flirt. Try toning it down a bit and concentrate more on your education.
After you've graduated, you can dress however you like. Then the men you will be attracting will be your age or older. And the ones looking for a serious relationship will like you better if you respect yourself instead of flaunting it to the world. No matter where you live, it's a universal thing here.
Women who show a lot of skin and have visible underwear are usually considered trashy or easy. Self respect goes a long way in the world, much more so than appearances. You can still look sexy in less revealing clothing.

Answer 3

Just my opinion here, but why would you want to dress "sexy" at school? That's not the reason you are there. You are supposed to be there to learn. Here, you can't even be over 21 and in high school. The only reason you would see a 25 year old in school would be that they were teachers. Furthermore, at 25 years old you shouldn't be dressing immodest at a school full of 14-18 year olds, whether you are a student or not. You should be setting a positive example, as you are older.

Answer 4

I am 16. Dressing the way you described I am not surprised you get the attention of the boys. And the girls are ticked off. I know I would be if you were at my school. One of the few good things about a school uniform is that it puts the girls on a more level field and takes away some of the reasons for us to feel insecure about our looks. However you have destroyed that.
Go back to the normal school uniform and concentrate on learning. If you want to "express yourself" do it out side of school.
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Answer 5

A time and place for everything, and school is not the place for a woman your age to try to dress and feel sexy. Save that for your after school time. But it seems to me you should be getting into the books and getting your education. Why have you not tried to get a GED? Take adult basic education classes, and move on in your life. Most women have careers, husbands, and or babies going on at this age. What's up with you? And by the way, you address yourself as a girl. Grow up and act your age, you are an adult, therefore you are a woman!!!

Answer 6

There's a time and place for everything. School is not the place to show how hot you are, especially since EVERY other student in school could get you locked up, so why would you want to entice them? Focus on your schooling. Obviously you missed something before if you're 25 and still in school. (not trying to be mean, but...) Save the sexiness for other places. It'll pay off in the long run. Trust me.

Answer 7

Especially if u are 25 and still in high school,you should try to hide your age.......I'm not saying that u are dumb,maybe you've had problems and you couldn't do very well at school at the time you should have.........but that's not the issue here.I think it's great that you want to finish high school,but I advise you to be as decent as possible.......As you are a mature person,you shoul dress like one too........the thing you said you wear at school are probably more proper at a party or in places you don't need to wear formal clothes......
Try shirts like this one,in pastel colors:www.bdpc.info/women_product/womens_shirt_06.jpg

and a skirt just a bit above your knees........I think it would be very classy of u and you'd be admired by the right kind of people

Answer 8

Seriously, you're 25 years old, GROW UP!!! If you ever want to finish high school, dress down and focus on your studies. Save those kinds of outfits for parties and clubs. If you feel like you have little in common with the BOYS at your school why do you constantly try to attract them?

Answer 9

Wow, it seems to me that the people who answered this question are truly after their future! I read all your answers first before answering this question.
They are right! You need to concentrate on your studies. You are there to study and not to give improper impression especially to your institution. Your sexy attire will only destruct the attention of the students.
Actually, I happened to be a late bloomer also. I had to continue my high school in my early 20's. The administration was so afraid that I would wear makeup in coming to school. But I promised the authority that I would not. And up to now, I seldom wear makeup. Only during my performances.
So, please, be modest enough and concentrate on your studies. You are there to study and get the good values in life. That's for your own good.

Answer 10

I'm living in a hot humid climate country too. But I still wear a very conservative clothes. At school day, I wear long blouse, ankle length pullover dress, and trousers beneath my pullover dress. I also required to wear jacket (but we are allowed to take it off inside classroom). I feel much more comfortable in such dress.

To my standard, what you are wearing is too immodest, such immodest that beyond my imagination. I can't imagine how could you being in such confidence wearing that. But anyway, I think it's your own choice.