I would I ask how I can defeat my fears and hesitation in my life?

Question

I have always told my self I have to put all fear behind and go a head in my life but mostly I fail

Answer 1

We do not know what fear you suffer from so it is very hard to give you good advice.
BUT...
First need to identify the fears that you have.
Then try to understand the cause of those fears.
Example ( If you are afraid of door knobs. Cause: As a child you may have been hit in the head with one when someone opened the door.)

Then learn that you are past that and even though you may not like what ever caused your fear it is over and done with a long time ago.

I hope this helps.

:o)
Jerry

Answer 2

You have to work on your fears once you get over them the hesitatetion will go to. The only reason you hesita is because of fear. Now is there anything that you fear that can harm you in any way? Do you get short of breath sweaty, and feel a little dizzy with your fears? If your answer is yes you might be getting anxiety attics which can be taken care of

Answer 3

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Answer 4

You need to list the positives in your life and about yourself. You are a worthy, and I'm sure, intelligent person. Tell yourself you can do anything and you will. Have faith in yourself. You are the only one looking out for your well-being and your future. Think about what you fear and then set out to conquer it. You may fail, but pick yourself up and start over again, you will succeed.

Answer 5

Just decide to do it and do just that! Have more self confidence, fear is something we created for ourselves and they are stumbling blocks/obstacles to what we want to achieve. It's a mental thing. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. None but YOURSELF can free your mind.

Answer 6

http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/center_index.php?id=353&cn=353

The above self help book is very good one.To overcome fear the underlying reasons may be different.I do recomment reading the above book.Its free!
My other best site is
http://www.coping.org .Its has lot of information regarding overcoming fears.

Answer 7

sometimes its justt a case of taking a runningjump, not looking back.
ive done this with various things, as long as youve thought it through and its something you know youd like/want to do then go for it my man.
You can do it........lol

Answer 8

know your strengths and what you want in life.