I'm a single girl and I'm dating with a married man.. we live far from each other.. and I'm not comfortable with the situation due to I feel my self guilty.. eventhough I really love him and he loves me.. but we have a lot of complication in the middle.. What have I to do??? Let him go or go on.... ?????? Thks...
2006-08-29 22:04:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What a stupid question! Does the term HO mean anything to you? And I'm not talking Santa or garden tools!
2006-08-29 22:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by GVD 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he really did love you then he would end his current relationship to be with you.
I understand you totally - its hard when u fall for someone who is attached but you need as a person commitment and emotional support. He cannot be there when you want him to be... you cannot even call him anytime you want - his wife may be there !
Give him an ultimatum and if he really truly does want to be with you then he will be - but dont accept a small part of the pie. You deserve the whole !
Good luck hun & HUGZ
(& medicgvd or whatever you are called who answered below - you are very disrespectful - get out of the caring (medical) sector and into trash removal where that attitude is more appropriate !)
2006-08-29 22:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly I think that is wrong, but let me tell you because this is what happened to my parents , ok my dad ended up having an relationship with some woman and she knew he was married, he never treated her right or any woman, the woman he's married to I'm pretty sure he's puting her thru hell right now, and maybe it's because of you, I don't know or other women he talks to , but let me tell you honey he's not gonna do you right or respect any woman he dates so if you have any respect for yourself you should just leave him alone because in the end you will be unhappy and stressed if you end up with this man, this is a honest opinon, you can get mad or take my advice but this is how infedelity starts in anyones relationship and you should not have to settle for less I know you are better than that.
2006-08-29 22:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by fieldmicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule one. Never and I mean Never date a married man, and the basic rule is that if he can Cheat on his Wife, then he can Cheat on you! Most men will not leave their wifes for their playmate, they have more to lose. Secondly you are the loser because he can not offer you anything except false promises. In the end you must realize that you will have to let him go and move on! So look at it this way. Cut your loses now, then to cut your loses later. There are more fishes in the world then the FISH you have on a Hook, or do you? Thanks for asking. Aloha from Hawaii.
2006-08-29 22:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Don't date a married man. You wouldn't want your husband to date other woman right? Just think this as a lesson. No matter how much it hurt you now, it will only got worse if you keep this up.
2006-08-29 22:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation 10 years ago..I had fallen in love with a married man , we had worked together and were both in a unhealthy marriage, but I was already separated from my husband....He said he loved his wife..I knew in my heart he would be mine one day...But I had to remove myself from the situation and moved up north for 1 year exactly..I was so miserable but I didn't want his family pointing the finger and saying I broke up his marriage.It was up to him to stay with her or come to me...He came and got me 1 year later and we have been married for 7 years...It is all in how you handle the situation...Good Luck
2006-08-29 22:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, of course. You'll ruin his family and your life as well for nothing. Find a man that befits your requirements and marry him.
2006-08-29 22:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation on your is very grim. For your best future I would advise you to break this relationship. Coz he is busy in his family and just passing an extra time with yo. So break this relation.
2006-08-29 23:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him before its too late,ders a lot of man out der,tink of his kids,wat will happen to them n how dey will react if one day they found out that their father is cheating on dem or worst end up as broken family,der r lots of single guys out der don't mess with family....
2006-08-29 23:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a married man is never a good thing. How can you trust him when he is cheating on his wife?
2006-08-29 22:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by emaleiluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bé sinceramente, già prima e poi in seguito alla mia separazione, sono sempre + convinto ke una storia d'amore x essere tale...nn deve avere complicazioni. Già nn è facile comprendere il nostro partner ( e cmq la gente ke ci circonda ) in tutto e x tutto normalmente quando, diciamo, le cose vanno bene, figuriamoci se ci sono situazioni ke compromettono frequentemente " il vivere felici ". Volersi bene ci è naturale poikè lo desideriamo, ma trovare la felicità e la serenità x mantenere " il bene " bé è un' altra cosa. Una famosa canzone napoletana dice: < L'amore è facile nn è difficile, se deve succedere...seccederà >. Occhio ke nn sono pessimista, al contrario dato il mio ottimismo ho avuto il coraggio di cambiare vita, quindi è già complicata la vita di x se...xkè complicarsela anke in amore? Auguri e ciao
2006-08-30 21:16:35 · answer #11 · answered by Sil125 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋