why does loving someone u cant have hurt so bad?? y does it kill??? my friend and i have the same problem and its killin. i need help wat should i do leave it until he breaks up or forget him or just talk to him bout it not want anything to happen???
please Help us and thank u in advance
2006-08-29 22:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by EmmY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
think about it, if you were able to have this person would you want them so much?
2006-08-29 22:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you feel that this person is the missing link in your life that makes it whole. Thing is if you can't have him, there must be a reason for that? Sometimes you will hurt less if you settle for what you can have instead of what you can't.
Talking to him would help I think.. I'd say 'what do you have to lose' because really... what can you lose? You would at least gain your answer and then you can begin to move on.
2006-08-30 05:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by toyotagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is scarifice - it is a painful BUT sweet experience. why does it hurt? because we keep thinking about someone we love - what they are doing, what they are thinking and we want all the best for them. we always want to be their "bodyguard". we always want to be on their side, protecting them. loving someone whom you think you cant have would hurt since we are afraid that they would not be happy with that another person. just tell him and you have nothing to lose if he rejects you. if he rejects you, just get continued with your life and continue to find your true love. true love are reciprocal
2006-08-30 06:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by unquenchablethirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its reli hard to have a one side feeling,but dats life,maybe the one ur wanting now is not the one meant for u.Try to be busy on other tings,enjoy life n soon u will appreaciate how wonderful life n love can be.
2006-08-30 06:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing in life that u really want isnt hard...
2006-08-30 05:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by smousa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋