Why do women do this?

Question

I have notice that Women are attractive to the as shole type of man.While A nice guy gets no love .Then B itch about their BF or Husband for not caring about her .
Do women only fuc ks with Dic ks literally,emotionally and physically???

Answer 1

"Why do good girls like bad boys? I know from my own experiences. Bad boys
tend to be good in bed. This is not a rule but is more consistent then not. I think
this is because bad boys know that if they don’t have the “niceness” of a good
guy, they might as well be especially good at something…sex.

My background, info is that I grew up in a religious family. I have a college
degree and I am considered a “good girl” because I have done the right things for
the majority of my life. I didn’t have a boyfriend until college because my
parents were so strict, and I didn’t have any real freedom until I went to college.
My life I felt was boring, I wanted adventure and excitement.

Back in college, I fell in love with my first “bad boy.” You can spot most “bad
boys” the second he enters the room. Characteristics: Overly confident, highly
aggressive, conceited, but has an element of charm that is actually very
intriguing. And sometimes, your instincts tells you in your gut that this guy is
wrong, but curiosity gets the best of us. And before you know it you are
sucked into the web of a “bad boy.”

This guy who I will call Jason X was so charming. But he also lied, and knew
how to manipulate my emotions to get into my comfort zone, which I had
guarded for so many years. He told me what he thought I wanted to hear to get
what he wanted and most of the time that was sex. He knew how to play with
my emotions but he was disconnected from me emotionally.

I have to admit, the need to be loved and low self esteem played a major part of
my decision to be with a man who I knew was not good for me. It was not only
the sex, but also the way he carried himself. He was so confident, it was sexy
because it was a sign of his strength, and at that point in my life and many
years after that, I did not feel confident in myself, because I did not know who I
was and what I really wanted in my life. Being with a bad boys became an
obsession that I craved.

Society and the media glamorize the bad boy image. I can not blame society or
the media for my poor judgment, but it doesn’t help. I went through a series of
these kinds of relationships, until finally I decided that I deserved better.

My advice for “good guys” is don’t try to be something that you are not,
because believe me, Karma is a mother*cker. What you do will come back to
you.

Yes, you can get a good woman without being bad. You don’t want to just
satisfy her sexually, you want to satisfy her mind and genuinely want to move
towards a healthy relationship. If you don’t want to have a serious
relationship, be honest about your feelings.

.As I look back at my life, I see that the reasons I was choosing bad guys was
because of my lack of self esteem. But after years of series of relationships with
men who were not good for me, I realized that I deserved a man who would
treat me right.

A good man does not have to stand alone. A good man needs a good woman. A
good man learns at some point in his life that being a "good" means that you
think good and think positively; is good natured, have good habits, and is
honest. And this is actually something that people can see.

A good sexual relationship is essential to having a healthy relationship. It is not
all of what comprises a relationship, but is a very important part.

Romance is important, Of course this goes both way, but if you show the
initiative, your partner will surely follow your lead. Take charge while still
remaining a gentleman. Someone who can be firm and gentle at the same time.
Show me you're a man by treating me like a woman.

Get to know your woman’s fantasies and dreams and tap into this information
to make her fantasies and dreams come true.

I hate to say it, but a lot of men don’t really listen to their partners. This is
something that takes time and practice. Encourage her to discuss her desires
and goals and participate in helping her reach those goals with good intentions;
this will arouse her body and her mind..You don’t have to be a conceited,
obnoxious man to your partner to get respect and love. Good character is very
important to being a good man. But you have to make the time and effort to be
a good man to your partner..."

Answer 2

Some women go for the Alpha Male . . .usually this guy is more strong bodied then strong in intellect. The more power they display the more easily attracted the woman becomes. This is basic knowledge. The more power, the more crap they put up with.

I can drive up in a 1986 rusted up Hyundai or Yugo and try to pick up a woman and my chances will be very slim. . .Change that to an SLR Merc and they will be lining up. . .Now, this is not true for every woman. . .just too many of them are wired this way. . .Also, in the Tough Guy scenario. . .they are more inclined to need Mr. Tough guy and share his power.

Me? I "had" looks, brains, "a nice body" and I was funny. . .(now I am funny looking" Having 5 sisters kept my plate pretty full, by meeting all their female friends. . .It was quite a learning experience.

Answer 3

That's cause they view these types of guys as a challenge and they somehow think they can tame the wild animal. While it seems exciting at first, it's not practical for long term relationships in my opinion. Besides, who said nice guys don't get love? My husband's a nice guy.

Answer 4

Girls are always attracted to the bad boy type, just like guys are attracted to the slutty hot girl. Neither relationship works well in the long run.

Answer 5

You are generalizing women are people some make mistakes, some don't. Men are no different, they go after bitches, mostly because of their looks in both cases, they want the pretty one and don't care that the person is a total a**hole.

Answer 6

for some reason women like to 'change' the bad boy and make him turn all mushy, its a challenge and its fun, also they feel as though the 'macho' persona will protect them and make them feel safe. I must admit, im attracted to the 'hard bastard' type of bloke, but not all women are...

Answer 7

because deep down MOST but not all women want a man who CAN not be ruled by them and WILL put them in there place if they step outta line! nice guys dont do that hence the saying nice guys finish last!

Answer 8

Not all women do it on purpose.... and it all depends on how nice the guy is because a lot of women don't want no trained little puppy

Answer 9

theres just nothing better than a bad boy or 2

Answer 10

Attractive to or attracted to?