he is like all you can think about it sex.. and he also said he doesnt want to do it anymore. I know there is nothing wrong with me but is it really hard for you guys to do it thrice or 4 times a week? does my guy have a prob? there was a time when he couldnt keep his hands off me, that was the time we werent doing it...after that we started doing it regularly and he did say he loved it..but now whats the matter? its driving me insane!!
2006-08-29 21:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by scintillating_baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we r living together, cant leave him right away...can someone tell me how should i go about seducing him all over again? or should i take him to a consultant?
2006-08-29 21:59:00 · update #1
He called you a B****? It's obvious you're not a sista or you would have handled that then and there and you wouldn't be confused. No woman should be disrespected being called that name, ESPECIALLY FROM YOUR MAN! Keep him at a distance. If he wants to come over, say no, you're busy. If he wants to take you out, say no, you'd rather not. If he doesn't want to have sex, fine - you probably need a break from him. When he finally comes to his senses and asks if there's something wrong, tell him don't ever disrespect you again by calling you out of your name like that. It's not appreciated nor will it be accepted! If he doesn't come to his senses and act like somebody who loves you, KICK HIS *** TO THE CURVE!!!!!!!!! Life is too short to be miserable and confused - you're young, be happy, treat yourself good and make sure others treat you good. If you need sexual relief remember: SISTA'S ARE DOING IT FOR THEMSELVES! Get a vibrator, learn the art of self satisfaction or find someone new. If you make yourself too available to him, he'll take you for granted (seems he's already doing that).
NOTE:
Seducing him at this point and time is not the answer. Respect is the problem at hand. Taking him to couple counseling is not the answer right now. Are you ready to be committed to someone who doesn't respect you, may be cheating on you or is not ready to be committed to you?
2006-08-29 22:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by EC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cosmo magazine keeps me informed of the latest and greatest every month now me and my man read over it together! Definitly helps keep the sex life interesting!!! Also, creams to enhance the sexual mood!! The actually have an oil that you put on the a perfume that will send any guy going go go go all over you!! lol it really does work!! the have sprays for the sheets in your bed that will release feramones and make your sheets feel like silk if they are cotton! Check out slumberparties.com or something along that line! Good Luck hun!!!
2006-08-29 22:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give 'im a break. You've simply exhausted him and he needs time to replenish and recharge his depleted batteries. However, if he doesn't show any interest afterwards then that means both of you are through for good and you'd better start searching for a new bf but this time don't give him all that he wants at one-go, just make it once-a-week thing so that he'll be crawling for it.
2006-08-29 22:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times a week? how old are you? if you and him are young you can do that in one night!
well... when two are together for long time, the flame diminishes. it's normal. after a year or so, 3 times a week is OK. No need to go nuts on him
2006-08-29 22:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my boyfriend has been .... not so sexual lately neither, but I make him lol. If you are comfortable enough to, you can ask him whats wrong. If he's going to treat you like that, you may what to consider if he's right for you. And if you can just try inticing him, it could just work. Or maybe it's that he has a problem about something else, and he doesn't want to tell you, maybe a sexual problem, and he doesn't want to worry you, or something like that.
2006-08-29 21:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by xxtwistedprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish ur were my g/f.
I would love to do it 6 or 7 times a week.
The problem is with ur guy...
He has less sex drive now...
He is turning away from u....
Because his stamina dosent allow him to do it more that 1 or 2 times a week....or not even that...
He called u Bich because he wants to put it on ur side.
He dosent want to show his weakness....
He is blaming u so that he avoids sex...
He is now dried up!
Just dump him!
2006-08-29 22:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by just curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just happens, you cant every day for the rest of your life, if you still want it but he doesnt then you need to just jump on him and get him in the mood, dress in a way that he likes and act as if you dont realize you look sexy...he'll love the fact that you arent gagging for it (even though you are) and if you start saying no, while your looking nice he try harder to get you into bed.
2006-08-29 22:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him, why he call you like that?
- about the sex prob, maybe he is addicted to you(i mean sex..), you can to a sexual orientation program.
and is proof that he love u too much, and enjoy it , because in the next 20 years it will be less than now..
good luck.
2006-08-29 22:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Leo M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a problem. Call him a "dick" and ignore him for a week. Go out with the girls and flirt, when you get home, he'll be jealous and take out all that frustration out on your pus*y! If not, leave his limp di*k!
2006-08-29 22:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 or 4 times a week should be ok.., maybe he is developing fatigue - consult doc... More than that, I'll have to agree with him *****
2006-08-29 22:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sid Has 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋