My boyfrind went to run errands,,,i spent much of the last two days cleaning his house and running errands for him as well and pretty much keeping in touch with him all day.....i joked and said I'll see you at 1:00 (a.m.) when he left the house. At 1:10 in the a.m. he said that he was close to home. At 2:30 he was on his way...happy and wanting to be home with me and "be" with me. My daghter in bed, his house clean, his laundry done and his dogs taken care of. When he arrives at 3:30 in the morning he shows up with 3 girls that are half dressed. Strippers from the local strip joint. I am in his boxers and t-shirt, got out of the shower not too long prior and I had a clothes basket in my hand. I asked what was going on and he said they were going to stay and have a drink. When I confronted the situation they said that they wanted to make sure he got home okay. What the **** would one think? How rational can you be? Do you automatically think the worst or give the benefit of the doubt?
2006-08-29 21:23:48 · 12 answers · asked by planting2lips 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He had ben drinking and i joked when I said "I'll see ya around 1:00 a.m." knowing that what he had going on was going totake some time. So in route to come home a friend called and asked him to stop by the titty bar. He never once mentioned anything about it when I caleed to ask him to get me smokes on the way home. He has never acted this way and I have on many occassions gone with him to the titty bar. He is not the kind to get dances or throw his money away like that. He knows many ppl in the industry been around it for quite some time. He's not there for the girls. In facrt he told the girls that I was at home and my daughter was sleeping. It wasn't until I questioned the girls intentions and they said to have some drinks. I asked what kind of party were you expecting witha child sleeping and me doing laundry in his underwear? the girls agreed and left. I argued calmly and emotionally, he's too drunk to comprehend. i love u and marriage in one breath and disrespect in actions.
2006-08-29 22:38:10 · update #1
It is pretty hard to give you an answer.. or a suggestion... I'm sorry but I don't believe him due to if nothing bad was going on.. he could tell you at 1.10 am (hi dear, I'm sorry but I found some friends and we are going to drink something together.. don't you mind??) This kind of behavior can guarantee the truth.. due to you already know that he is not hiding you anything...Of course you have not think the worst if it is the first time that happens but I will try to understand the reason of his behavior
2006-08-29 21:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would give him benefit of the doubt, but with these circumstances, I would give him the boot. I lived too long in a relationship like that to realize he's no good.
2006-08-30 04:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by noodlenmac0329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG are you kidding me? Leave that bas.tard! That is horrible, I cannot believe this could happen to anyone. How can he bring a bunch of whores to his home...and what was he doing in the strip joint?? Plugh, he disgusts me.
2006-08-30 04:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously know that he's a selfish b*******, without a care for your feelings or any respect for you. And you treat him as your b/f?
What's wrong with you? Have some self respect and leave him. Live your own life with someone who respects you and are sensitive to your feelings.
2006-08-30 04:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have so kicked his *** to the curb AND made a mess of his place! What an inconsiderate asshole. Dump him and get your daughter far away from this prick!
2006-08-30 04:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The errands he was running were of the cheating variety.
2006-08-30 04:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the guy two hours went by and been with 3 strippers drunk ... WAKE UP AND WALK AWAY
2006-08-30 07:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by swept away in hopes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman, you are with a womanizer. I should know, I am, correction, used to be one. He is a jerk and it seems he is using you. you are cleaning his house, taking care of his dogs. if you don't get out it's because of your own insecurity.
2006-08-30 04:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lyings by the by, how drunk was he? did he apologise the next morning? kick him out for a while
2006-08-30 04:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mickenoss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why dont you try giving him a taste of his own medicine..or dump the bastard..
2006-08-30 04:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋