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what do you do if your in a relationship for six years but you are in love with someone else. should you go where your heart is even if you know you are going to tear someones heart....

2006-08-29 21:06:37 · 20 answers · asked by t.littlebear 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Either way, there will be consequences. You are obviously not too happy with your current relationship if you are seeking out other prospects.

If you aren't in love with your current partner, than you need to take care of that first. Break it off, and give yourself some time to heal from the relationship. Don't just jump into a new situation, because you probably don't know them as well as you think you do.

2006-08-29 21:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You need help, but in what, where and when?
Relationship for six years with one and at the same time love with someone. How's it possible? Will you just define love and relationship within your practice? Normally anyone will go where your heart will take you. In the present situation, where is your heart? In relationship or love?

2006-08-30 04:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0 0

Not enough info. Are you married ( made a vow) and/or have underage children form this relationship? If so, you really need to go to counseling and see how you can salvage your relationship, maybe rekindle the romance. Perhaps because things are not going so well at home, your attention is going somewhere else. And if through counseling you learn that there is no hope, at least get support for everyone in the family to get through such a traumatic event, because that is what breaking up a family is like. But if you have no commitments, then things are easier for you. Be honest with your partner, tell him/her that you deeply care for them but the romance is gone. You dont have to make it worse by telling them you have the hots for someone else. But do not lead them on, be clear that you want to move on and prefer no contact and that you are really sorry. The worst you can do is leave him/her thinking they can win you back!!

2006-08-30 04:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 1 0

You know that you are going to tear someones heart in this situation... but what you are feeling for that someone else might just be some fling, and that person might not even feel anything for you. Are you married or are you going steady with this person you are with? Otherwise I would talk it over with them. Cheers, hope you make the right decision.

2006-08-30 04:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 2 · 0 0

I was married for 6 yrs w/ 3 kids. But I wasn't happy so I got a divorse and followed my heart. I hurt my ex yes, but I am so much happier. You have to be honest with yourself and the person that you are with.Life is too short and unpredictable to stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy.

2006-08-30 04:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by emaleiluv 2 · 0 0

It depends. Are you married to this person you have been with for six years?

If you are not married to them - then it is better to go ahead and end the relationship - your in love with someone else.

2006-08-30 04:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by T W 2 · 0 0

Sometimes it is best to move on to the one you love. You are also showing love to your six year relationship by making them move forward also instead of wasting time in a relationship that has run its course

2006-08-30 04:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by homeless1 1 · 0 0

oh my, what r u doing in a relationship if you r not in love with the person..that too for 6 yrs...
ok ok
explain to ur partner that you have fallen out of love and will be much happier with someone else..
if you really love the other someone only then go ahead...it might just be infatuation...
tread carefully...

2006-08-30 04:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by v v 2 · 0 0

Well, it's a long relationship but are you just dating or married? If you're just dating and it hasn't gone beyond that, and you honestly do love this person, maybe it's time to call it a day and go be with the person you love.

2006-08-30 04:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0 0

Yes, you should let go the other person you are not in love with.. even though it is pain full and sad, but you will give chances to you and to other person to be really happy. To arrive to happyness you have to cross a narrow and dark street, but after you will have happiness and maybe the other person one day will be able to tell you thank you.
Good luck.

2006-08-30 04:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by tufty2310 2 · 0 0

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