I tried breaking up with my boyfriend since I recognized the things hes chosen over me.Our relationship went bad.And yes I am pregnant.But he wants a break only.I want to get away from him as far as I can.Because a break will only make me cry and think about him 24/7.But he says we will miss each other and he need his space.But hes always at work we only see each other 3 times a week which is wed,fri,and sundays!Thos days are only 3 to 4 hours a day and we will have sex that long straight 3 hours.It feels like a routine so he gets his space a lot and I am starting to think hes not the right guy for me.And only keeping me for sex.& by the way I hate his friends, there was a time that they cussed me out or disrespect me and he laughs with them but when I tell him I dont like them he says I am too controlling and he wants to party,smoke,drink, and have fun with his friends.I know we dont have fun anymore at all.He says I ***** a lot but has he ever wonder why I feel this way.
2006-08-29 20:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by Nathan A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give it up girl...
THE TRUTH will really bite you.. but the thing is U ALREADY know what he just want with u and that is just for SEX...
There are still guys out there that will make u feel more important..even if youll be having a child..and right now..think only whats best for your child..
im already a family man..and during those 1st months with my wife..we are really poor..we have to work allday just to have some food..but with the commitment to each other we successfully raised a child and a big improvement with our income..U CAN DO IT TOO...have some time for your self too...
and i hope id make u feel more better... :)
2006-08-29 20:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by bloodyvamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space maybe child birth will bring him closer to you both as he will have less time fooling around with his friends and more responsibilty...i have seen lots of guys changing tremendously after the baby is born..its your call...follow your heart in the end...good luck! But definitely give him his space...he is going through his phase as he knows what lies ahead after the baby is born and he wants to do the thinking....guys show in a different way then women...!
2006-08-30 03:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Msfunloving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bad you didnt figure this out before you got pregant.....You dont need him, send him packing.....
2006-08-30 03:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not smart to figure tht out, then u tell him...and apologize
2006-08-30 03:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋