some time my wife dont talk to me or text me on my phone. i am not sure what i am doing wrong.
i dont lie to my wife and told her the true.
please let me know or any ideas?
2006-08-29 20:16:48 · 9 answers · asked by jwtaz1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will be married in the coming year and I believe I have already went through this Phase of the relationship.
What you should do is ... resist the urge to "Fix Things"
If you ask her "whats wrong" and she says nothing but continues to act in her way of not talking or text messaging just act normal and go and do something else to give her some time to go through whatever it is that's going through her mind.
I learned this the hard way and believe me It is VERY hard to just .. "Let things Go". Men are instinctive when we notice problems because we automatically want to fix them. It is hard to resist that urge.
Also what I did with my fiance is sit her down and talk to her about what I was feeling about some of the Body language she was giving me and how I felt when she would not share her feelings or problems with me.
I stress this "IT is very important to make sure you are not accusing her of not doing something right. Make sure you tell her its something wrong with you and how you are interpreting her. Once she takes things as Something wrong with you it will kick in her own "FIX IT" instincts and she will want to help you interpret her better in the future.
Long response but I hope this helps.
James
2006-08-29 20:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by dark_blue_prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife, ask her why doesn't she text you or call you on the phone..
But then also try to consider her situation, if she is at work possibly her boss will get mad at her if she always uses the phone or mobile or maybe she is busy that she can't find time to text or call you. I, myself sometimes can't find time to text or call my husband because of my boss or because of lots of jobs/duties in work.
OR if...
She is at home maybe she has alot of house chores to finish thats why she doesn't text or call you..
Just try to be considerate of her situations. But like what I said on the top.. Talk to her at home when you're together and ask her nicely why. The best way to find out is to Communicate with her and not only with this situation but with all your problems or conflicts at home etc.
2006-08-30 03:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is your wife do you not talk at home? What did you tell the truth about? and if all else fails and she loves you give her space she will get mad tell you what's wrong call you insensitive or a few choice curse words then and only then do you "FIX IT"
2006-08-30 03:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is what you need to be doing with her. Text her, Females like it when guys like to show that they care for them.
2006-08-30 03:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so Sweet!! You need to tell her that you Love hearing from her. (Unless you're one of those guys that are jealous of even the family pet????)
2006-08-30 03:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by dawnee_babe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your wife about this dude! Ask her what's up and why she doesn't want to talk to you on the phone or text.
Good luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-30 03:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause u're sticky...ur wife is independent and she doesn't like u calling
2006-08-30 03:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her nd see wasup. you two can resolve this by communicating one on one.
2006-08-30 03:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by arghh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the truth?
2006-08-30 03:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋