His ex-girlfriend although in another country always updates him of her work status every now & then & sending him financial support, although he is open to me & told me they're separated. What do you think of this situation & what should I do?
2006-08-29 20:15:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to her he's not an ex
2006-08-29 20:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Susie K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What sort of man is your b/f? Consider the facts below:
1. He's getting financial support from an ex. Why does he need financial support? Isn't he working?
2. He still contacts her regularly. Have they really broken up? Is he over her?
3. She communicates with him and sends him money. Is this a result of a broken (unmarried) relationship?
4. She stays in another country. Doesn't this make it easy for him to hide the fact that he has another girl? Is he truthful with you as well?
Leave him. Go on to the next chapter in your life. If you still want proof that he's not lying to you, then get him to talk to his ex in your presence. Also let him introduce you to his ex. If he's telling the truth, this should not be a problem for him, right?
2006-08-29 20:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your bf is one sorry excuse for a guy..why is he taking her money? And it additionally sounds as though she will possibly no longer observe that they are 'separated'. and how are they 'separated' if she grow to be purely a gf, they may be broken up and in the event that they are neither of them is hardship-free with of what the meaning of EX is! i may be very suspicious and can probable supply the gf a decision to ensure for myself, i might perhaps say he asked you (no longer which you have long gone) yet you knew he nevertheless talked together with her so which you had to make advantageous that they have been finished earlier you desperate no count if to settle for his grant or no longer. If he's mendacity it would reason him some hardship, yet while thats the case he merits the hardship and he or she'll comprehend to hold directly to her money interior the destiny and he or she merits that.
2016-10-01 02:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been in this situation and at first, I was like....Well, if she wants to send him money, fine! But, you have to wonder what he is telling her in order for her to send him this money. Why does he need her money? He doesnt have a job? My ex is recieving money from this chic he used to be with, but I really dont believe that she would have been sending him anything if she knew he was with me at the time. If it really matters to you, you should ask him if he is telling her he is single and if she knows about you. If she doesnt and he is playing games, you should leave him alone. Any man who has to get money from a woman is sorry anyway.
2006-08-29 20:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're not comfortable with the set-up, better tell him that. You're not being unreasonable hunny. They can be friends w/o the monetary attachments. Debt of gratitude is sometimes an unpayable debt. Let him choose between him keeping her just a friend and keeping you or losing you and keeping her as a friend w/ the benefits.
2006-08-29 20:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by ginger n' spice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is very good
you have another woman helping in your relation & financial support is great keep it up keep it going
2006-08-29 20:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more $ he has coming in, the more he'll have to spend on you. Don't ruin a good thing. When she comes into town, you can all get together.
2006-08-29 20:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's in another country and expects NOTHING in return for her financial support, then it shouldn't bother you. Even if she does and he does NOT want to give anything in return, it still shouldn't bother you.
Obviously, she's a dumbass for doing this and is trying to be oh-go-giving...as long as he shares, who cares. If there's something in return to be expected then put a stop to it.
2006-08-29 20:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what a lucky guy. why don't you share in the bounty by spending the ex-gf's money when shopping? you should be happy provided your bf is not unfaithful to you. cheers!
2006-08-29 20:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him and look for some one else.
2006-08-29 20:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave skid marks.
2006-08-29 20:22:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋