ok, she calls me up and verbally abuses me, evrytime she sees me she makes sure i know wats on her mind which is nothing good, boyfriend is no help @ all!
2006-08-29 19:57:47 · 5 answers · asked by nesiangal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is there anything you did that upset her? Be honest. Confide in your closest friends that you can trust. Or maybe she doesn't want her son to be "stolen" from you" & try to be "nasty" to frighten you away?
No matter how badly you're treated, be nice & pleasant, if you can. Tell her nicely that it's not fair for you to hear all these comments from her. Ask her what does she want. If it's too awkward to ask her by yourself, ask your boyfriend for support. Tell him you can't handle this kind of stress & ask him to talk to his mom. If not, you may consider leaving him for good for your sanity. It's supposed to be a happy thing going on a relationship, not with this type of unneccessary stress with verbal abuse unless there are things you need to work on that spur her anger / verbal abuse / violent behaviour. Consider that she may be one stressed-up lady & have nothing / no one to vent anger on. You could end up feel sorry for her & even give her your support. You never know. Have a good talk with her, if you can. Get your emotional support group ready for yourself to fall back on & get up again.
2006-08-29 20:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some steel in your backbone and ask the mother why does she talks to you like this and that you will no longer allow her to talk to you like this. You will do all of this, politely, of course. Bf's lack of guts in front of mommy doesn't qualified as a good candidate for a relationship.
2006-08-29 20:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to kiss your ***!!And tell your boyfriend if he isn't going to stand by your side then get fu$$ed as well!!You don't need ole battle ax or mommas boy in your life!Find better someone who will stand up for you,and someones who's mom isn't giving you slack every time she sees you.Sounds like ole momma is over protective and no one will ever be good enough for her son and by his attitude he must be just pu$$y whipped!So i would just part ways esp if your boyfriend is no help ,there is no sense of you going thru what your going thru and believe me he and his mom are not going to change,so good luck!!
2006-08-29 20:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on why she doesn;t like him. although occurs deal alongside with your mum with recognize. that would not propose you settle with each and everything she says yet you ought to think of approximately it and spot if she has a factor. you have been with him for 4 years, each and every so often kin see greater from the exterior of a relationship than we are able to work out. have faith their opinion they only decide for whats right for you.
2016-10-01 02:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not much u can do...thye feel like u stole her son...i guess u can be patient and don't start off fights with her
2006-08-29 20:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋