2006-08-29 19:48:19 · 13 answers · asked by gibson4578 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know your marriage is working when you don't feel the need to ask this question anymore.
2006-08-29 19:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know you have a successful marriage, when you can wake up in the morning roll over kiss him/her on the lips with that stinky morning breath look at that messed up hair and face with no makeup or unshaven face and say...I love you more than anyone or anything in the whole world. My husband and I tell each other this everyday, we've been married for fourteen years .I'd say my marriage is working just fine.
2006-08-30 03:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Since you have ask this question, I can deduce that things are not going too great for you.Well if ever you are encountering any problems you should talk it over with your life partner in order to find a solution together. For a relationship to work out it's really important to have love, care, trust, understanding and there should never be betrayal. Hope this helps. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-30 03:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Working? Your marriage is working one way or the other, good bad right or wrong. Specifically what are you looking for? I have been madly in love with ,my husband for years, and this is what I did:
I loved him. I smiled at him all the time, not just when things made me happy. Whenever he was home, I made him breakfast or dinner, and I told him it was "love muffins" or a "strawberry love shake" or whatever. love spaghetti. I took better care of my husband than I did of myself, and he took better care of me than he did himself. We each made comprimises to make sure the other was happy - he had bought concert tickets to see Sheryl Crow just becuase I liked her, he didn't even know what she sang. We NEVER went to bed mad. We told each other everyday that we loved each other. We truely appreciated the fact that we had each other, we didn't take each other for granted.
It takes a lot of work on both sides. Even those "fairy tale" kinds of loves take work to pull off.
When you get in an arguement, stop and think about what you are argueing about. Is it more important to be right, or is it more important to consider his point of view too. Choose your battles.
2006-08-30 03:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you 80% happy with your marriage in general? Then it's working. Compromise and communication are the two most important skills you need to make it work.
Your question is so vague it's kinda messed up that you wouldn't give us anything to go on so that is my answer and I'm stickin' to it!
2006-08-30 03:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the simple fact that the both of you are happy and enjoying yourself with no regrets. It's really tough and if you really work at it you'll be able to really conquer the bad times and continue on. Good luck, enjoy and relax.
2006-08-30 03:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can get through a whole week without wanting to choke the living - - - - out of her.
2006-08-30 04:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u r asking this question so u feel there is somthing wrong, so try to figure it out n then u will feel its working...
2006-08-30 03:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by smousa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details will help. What's wrong, howcome you are not sure of something that is about feelings? Emotional feelings, and so forth?
2006-08-30 02:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking, then mostly likely its not working. need more details on why you would ask this or think this?
2006-08-30 02:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋