IS THERE ANY WAY TO TELL?? ANY VISIBLE SIGNS JUST LIKE FEMALES HAVE?
2006-08-29 19:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by jenny j 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'll let you know some stuff since this is my area of expertise as I have been a virgin for 18 years as of September 8, 2006. There is no physical way to surely tell if a guy is a virgin. The balls thing that someone said above would work as most guys who are virgins will *** the first time they feel a girl grab his nuts. A more reliable way to know whether or not a guy is a virgin is to pay close attention to the things that we do. Me, for instance, I am one of the good guys that always finish last. Also another thing that us virgins will do is that we will try to pursue a relationship not for sex but for love. Even if there is very little chance that someone will love us we still stay in the relatioship no matter how much it pains us to do that. We will joke around at times about sex but will never pursue it, usually waiting of the female to initiate the progress to get that far. We are uncertain about what we should do in a relationship and we try to do as we have seen in the past. Myself, for example, in a relationship I would never hurt the female I am with. I also would try to confort her when I think she needs it but not in a way that I would be able to take advantage of the situation. I would know that I would always be there for her and that she can trust me. Also us virgins tend to think to far ahead. We we feel as if we are in love we tend to want to keep ahold of what we have at any means imaginable. For instance, I asked a girl to marry me while I was in lockup because I was afraid that I was going to lose her. I was afraid that I would never be able to be with her again. I was wrong in that assumption and all that did was create even more events where arguements tended to materialize from. One of those arguements was when she had said that she loved me. It was the first time that she had ever said that she loved me without me saying it first and it happened right after I proposed to her. I thought that we were moving forward but soon after that she said that she had an answer for me but she wasnt going to tell me. This led to a lot of stress for me as I didn't know the answer. When I got out of lockup I asked her what the answer was and she still wouldn't tell me. I feel as if she would have said yes if she could have done it with no one ever knowing due to what people would thing since I have a bad reputation. Also virgins are mostly shy and keep to themselves. I have kept to myself and I am somewhat shy but my reputation says that I am one of those people who you should stay away from. In short, just watch how people act and you will know. And most guys will tell you if they are a virgin, who would lie and say they were if they werent.
2006-08-31 18:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by JR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
you can only buy watching how they act, man when I was a virgin I didnt know how to kiss, plus I didnt even kiss on my first cause it wasnt special at all. Virgins cant kiss or dont know what to expect and pluse a virgin will only know one position, you on your back and he would never look at his penis before penetration and wont be able to find the point alone. He wont know that he needs to guide it through with the hole, he wont kiss you while going in the first and the guy is nervous but some people are good at hiden they nervousesness ok/ Virgin will come for more and more and willing to learn alot, be carefull of fakes cause some guys will act slow to decive you. A virgin can be mean if you dont show him love, he has to understand to reason for sex in a relationship so dont take it away if you not inlove, you would create a little monster looking for more sex with no love or afection. take it from me cause I been there. Take care
2006-08-30 03:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by DJ Cladeto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no stereoscope to know when a guy is a virgin as in the case of woman but u could dictate by the way the guy perform the action-for instance, if he is shy and does not know various styles of the thing.
2006-08-30 02:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by signorina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way you can tell but perhaps you can use your sixth sense. Just a curiosity why you are worried whether he is a virgin or not. On the contrary you should look for the opposite so long as he has no obligations or commitments.
2006-08-30 03:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By how long he can last with me...
Virgins - about 5-10 seconds
Experience men - about 1-2 minutes
2006-09-01 16:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Natalia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A truly virginal guy will behave more shy, more hesitant, more reticent. Not as arrogant and cocky as experienced guys. Their facial expression - you can always tell a virgin guy. His face is innocent & sweet. doesn't have that hardened, jaded look. You can always feel & sense a real virgin guy. Cause he has not been corrupted yet. It's that simple.
2006-08-30 02:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask nicely. There's no visible way for men, or for women, because some women are born without a hymen and some break it in some other way.
2006-08-30 02:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No visible signs you have to trust his word
2006-08-30 04:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell by the way he look to other sex if he look at her face he is virgin if he look at so many places in her body then he lost it
2006-08-30 02:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by richman55y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is not so right! If you want to ask him just tell him if he had sex before!
2006-08-30 02:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋