with how many people she shared the same relations as you
2006-08-29 19:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by Fresh Dew 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Coupla things.
Never ask a question, if you don't want to know the answer.
You can't EVER KNOW if anyone is being honest.
It is NONE of your business what her sex life was like before you. You need to protect yourself from disease and unwanted entanglements, regardless of what anyone SAYS. She needs to tell you if she has any diseases, but that could be ONE partner.
If you have been with her a long time, you might be able to tell when she is being less than honest. Maybe not.
She would be nuts to answer your numbers game, since it matters to you, and you are trying to make judgements about her based on a number.
The best you can do is KNOW for yourself that whatever the truth is--YOU can take it. You are mature enough to handle the truth and not allow others to push your buttons.
Develop a bit more maturity about experience. Most girls have multiple partners, and it can be a good thing. Most women are not virgins after the age of 16, so get over it.
2006-08-30 07:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her.....and you will know when to believe and when not to.....even if you dont know with how many people she shared the same relations as yours it wouldnt make any difference.....the important thing is that you are the only one in her life now and make her happy as long as you are with her
2006-08-30 02:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever kind of relationship she has had BEFORE you is just that, before. Leave it alone. It, simply put, is none of your business. You have her now, so be satisfied.
This is what happens to alot of couples. You start getting jealous over nothing, if you see one of her ex's on the street and she just happens to look that way. You want to accuse her of "looking" at him.
Get over the fact that there may have been someone before you. If you love her now, keep your mouth and thoughts shut. You will get along alot better.
2006-08-30 02:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally you don't know because it is very common for women to lie. I do know however, because I have a very honest and decent girlfriend at the moment. I am lucky in that respect.
2006-08-30 02:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She can back it up with her actions.
Example:
No flirty sms from other guys
No flirty messages from other guys' IM
No funny calls and funny appointments
You know what I mean. I have an open and honest relationship with my GF and I believe I am pretty lucky.
2006-08-30 03:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am alier, I will get tit immediately. If I am not a lier, I will smell the truth. It all depends on what kind of a person I am.
2006-08-31 01:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always trust your instinct. You KNOW if she's lying. You get that feeling in the pit of your stomach- always trust that feeling, it's never wrong. Good luck!
2006-08-30 02:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a virtue which should not be undervalued. If you love someone who is ethical then they will do the right thing.
2006-08-30 02:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is fair in love & war you have to trust your love even if she is lieing.who knows you are not a lier? never have suspicion in these relations.trust trust and only trust can prolong your relations.any doubt?
2006-08-30 02:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by raaj1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are talking to her face to face most of the time you should be able to tell if she is telling the truth or not. But sometimes you cant. Just tell her to be honest with you.
2006-08-30 02:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by ashleyritchie2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋