My boyfriend has a female "friend" at his job he flirts with her even has her number. I even woke up to him text messeging her. I don't want to leave him. I just want revenge on his flirtish ways
2006-08-29 19:24:27 · 13 answers · asked by sinai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Friends.hahahahaha thats what you think!!They are lying to you big time!Girl instead of revenge you better be worrying about how many times he has cheated on you with this girl!Then you need to leave.You cant be that dumb.A guy isnt going to text mess another girl while he is bed with another girl unless he is wanting something and it aint talking!! believe me is he trying his hardest to get in her pants,if he hasnt already, so you can be dumb and sit back and just let it happen or you better put a foot down to his flirting ways and not tolerate it a sec more!!Good luck!
2006-08-29 19:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer would be, revenge is not the answer. Use your brain women are so much better at that that revenge. If he knows that flirting with other chicks makes you feel threatened and he still does it he isnt worth your time. But if you never express how you feel then, you can't fault the guy. Talk to him and see if there is a change.
If on the other hand you think the above advice is total crap then just think, you know your boyfriend well, right? what makes him tick. Nothing make a guy appreciate a girl more than the idea that he could losse her at any minute...use your charm and soon other will see in you what he does sooner or later he will get on the defensive and spend far more attention to you...hope it works out.
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2006-08-29 19:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bring it to his attention that his actions are making you upset. Communication is key in any relationship, in order to make it work. About the revenge, you could get revenge by flirting with somebody else, but in all honesty, what good is that going to do besides making you feel good for a short amount of time. If you really love and care about him, that will not help the situation out any. Like I said, I would bring it to his attention and go from there. If he is a jerk about it, then you will know how he truly feels about you.
2006-08-29 19:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take revenge by all means, but you'll lose him.
I agree with most other people. If you can't communicate with your boyfriend, then this isn't a serious relationship and it's not going anywhere, anyway. Tell him that his flirting really upsets you. If he stops, then you know he cares for you. If he doesn't, then you're wasting your time with him.
2006-08-29 19:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not what you need. That's counter productive. What you probably need is a new boyfriend. And if you don't want to break up then don't go for revenge. But, I still think he's 'bad news'.
2006-08-29 19:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting revenge isnt going to solve anything, its just going to make things worse. If you really love him, tell him to stop, and ask him to stop texting her, he has no reason to be doing that, what do they have to talk about? they could of already slept together, and trying to figure out away to get with her instead. Communication is what you need to be doing if you want to save this relationship.
2006-08-29 19:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will make you look insecure and unattractive in his eyes. A little flirting is fine, but the late-night communications are over the top. You sure he's "all that"? Sound to me like you can do better.
2006-08-29 19:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to have revenge in such a childish manner, then you are too young to be in this relationship or too immature. Have you tried talking to him, dear? If yes, then seriously consider if this is the kind of abusive relationship you want?
2006-08-29 19:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is revenge going to solve? You might wind up doing something that you will regret or you will push him into her arms.
2006-08-30 03:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sex his boss, video tape it and play it on every tv in his work place for all employees to see then claim you dont remember a thing and say that chances were, someone probably came to your house, stuffed a sock in your mouth, drugged you up and dragged you to his bosses house forcing you to have wild and crazy sex with him. That oughta get his a.s.s
2006-08-29 19:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋